Once you get past the weirdness that makes the light cross back and forth, you can abstract it away to separation at signal time. It makes it much easier to reason about.
Which was one of many topics of that channel that also blew my mind, that photons might not exist, not as a particle anyhow, a photon(quantized amount of em field energy) is just how the em field interacts with matter. However because that is how we detect light, via it's interaction with matter, that interaction is probably the most important aspect. But it is totally possible to have sub-photonic levels of em-field.
I could build a 2D fluid simulator in a day by hand. Ask me to do the same in 3D and I need a team of five and 6 months.