But for women, this doesn’t seem to happen as much. Pity the poor men being dragged to social functions against their will. I literally have a T-shirt that states ‘Sorry I’m late, I didn’t want to come’.
Saying your husband has no friends is incorrect. I’m sure he has plenty of friends, he just doesn’t spend much or any time with them. That’ll change when the divorce finalizes.
What will change, wanting to spend more time with friends of spending more time with friends? I suspect only the former. You said, "my friends seem to do the same." Thus, unless everyone magically gets divorced simultaneously, you would just be the odd man out.
The more time people have the more time they have for friends and family and enjoying life.