The only chance maybe is if courts and regulators lock in zero-commission or a very small fee that eliminates Apple's incentive to allow and tax this stuff.
> I would be pretty proud if I could fight for my users' time. It's the most beautiful thing we get as humans.
You don't need Apple to fight for any of these things.
I went completely off grid for many years from Instagram, Facebook, etc. but in the end, I just felt isolated from friends and family and installed it again.
You have a statement to make and the your choice is making it's own statement about usability that is, frankly, off putting.