I maintain a Dropbox account, Apple Shared Albums, and a private Peertube instance for sharing this media. Instructions for care and feeding are part of my death package for the next custodian to continue operations. Remember you’ll have to hand this off to someone in the future for archive continuity.
I cannot speak to scanning, I outsourced this due to volume; CharterOak Digital out of Stonington, Connecticut is a vendor I can recommend, as well as ScanCafe [ScanDigital now] out of Carmel, Indiana; no affiliation with either. Do not destroy or dispose of the original media or artifacts post digitization if at all possible; keep those stored somewhere safe as physical backups of last resort. This is how the Internet Archive operates, and so I believe it to be a best practice.
[1] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=40239553
[2] https://old.reddit.com/r/DataHoarder/comments/yu4j1u/psa_ver...
[3] https://old.reddit.com/r/HardwareLoan/comments/eoeuax/lto_ta...
Additional potentially useful resources:
https://www.archives.gov/records-mgmt/publications/managing-...
https://cdn.nationalarchives.gov.uk/documents/archives/archi...
https://files.archivists.org/groups/museum/standards/4.%20Ar...
I appreciate the links, I think outsourcing may be the best option, given the volume.