"Tech" does not last. I like things that are durable and last. Solid hardwood furniture, a light switch that only closes a circuit and doesn't contain microchips, something built out of metal instead of plastic, etc.
I'll still buy new laptops and smartphones, but not "smart" things.
On the SWE side, if you don’t want to get out of software entirely find something to work on that isn’t just about tech. Find an aspect of the world that’s meaningful to you — maybe that’s biotech, maybe it’s plumbing — and build software that supports it.
But as long as you replace all this with meaningful connections with people, groups, communities I think you will be much better for it.
Just build and sell things yourself.
Opting into creation = good
You might have better luck having a conversation without using a leading question.