"Whenever I'm in town, I carve out two hours to have a family dinner" doesn't exactly scream healthy balance. I suspect that it's mostly off-work time that "will always have to give".
This very much reminds me of the saying that roughly goes "in the end, the only people who remember you working late are your kids/partner".
Leave these people to muddle their way forward with their hallucinating sycophant machines. Let them turn their large fortunes built on our backs into small ones as the inability of their models to adapt decays, leading them only to madness.
Or, keep doing what you're doing. Trade comfort now for the suffering of your loved one's later. Your choice. Either way, know mine.
What does Uber have to do with hallucinating sycophant machines?