I can see a reason they might be skittish, though: Ashley Madison. Note what she's doing: ENM speed dating. I very much doubt she's in a position to actually verify the E part.
> "The 'reputational risk' category has proven particularly controversial, as it can lead to exclusions of legal businesses based on subjective judgments rather than clear regulatory requirements. This has affected industries ranging from adult content platforms to legal cannabis businesses in jurisdictions where they operate lawfully. While payment providers are private companies acting in their own commercial interests-managing risk, maintaining banking relationships, and protecting their brands-there's growing recognition that as digital payments become essential infrastructure for participating in the modern economy, questions of access and potential discrimination deserve public policy attention. The tension between a company's right to choose its customers and concerns about essential service access remains an evolving debate, but it remains in the early stages."