The Linux desktop experience on Apple Silicon isn't up to par with what macOS can offer you, and lacks OEM drivers like AMD, Intel and Nvidia hardware has. If you're not willing to run Asahi and you don't want to use macOS anymore, you might want to start looking at alternative hardware.
This is more or less what I do, but when you happen to want a Linux GUI you end up using XQuartz which works fine, but doesn't exactly play well with the rest of macOS's windowing system (copy/paste works though!).
I have tested Fusion, Parallels and UTM and Fusion seemed to be the most stable for me.
Where is macOS showing you ads? And what "dark patterns" are you referring to?
Uh, it does. OpenGL/virgl works great out of the box for me with UTM and Linux guests (I'm on stock Debian stable), perfectly usable and performant enough to drive an external 4K monitor - my daily driver. Ditched my beefy Intel workstation for it, no regrets.
There's now virtualized Vulkan support which just shipped in UTM 5.0.0 this month - really exciting news! But it is still kinda buggy, so maybe that's your problem. Try UTM 4.7.5 or disable Vulkan (in UTM > Settings > Display) for now.
It seems that it depends on the distro though - I couldn’t get it working on any of the distros I mentioned above, although admittedly this stuff is not my strong suit; rather than spend lots of time figuring out the ins and outs of each distro I was kind of hoping that commenters would help surface the best options for this setup generally, from which it would then make sense to dig more deeply. Or alternatively, get a steer on which distros to avoid.
One of the commenters below helpfully mentioned NixOS - it’s been great - GPU acceleration working out of the box. Good contender at the moment.