I Built an Accountability App After Failing Every Productivity System for 6 Year(testflight.apple.com)
1 pointby hombreinabikin7 hours ago2 comments
  • N_Lens6 hours ago
    I think this kind of 'individual' system is great because it maps onto the creator's needs more precisely than off the shelf systems. However it has the same problems as other systems for a broad and diverse userbase - doesn't match diverse individual needs precisely.
    • hombreinabikin24 minutes ago
      good point. the difference is duuo doesn't prescribe what you should do or how you should do it. you define your own goal, your own metric, your own check-in frequency. the app doesn't care if it's "run 5k daily" or "don't check twitter before noon" or "practice piano 20 min." the only thing duuo provides is the accountability layer—another person watching. the system underneath is whatever you need it to be. so it's less "here's a productivity system" and more "here's infrastructure to make any system actually stick." that said, genuinely curious what edge cases you think would break this. always looking for blindspots.
  • hombreinabikin7 hours ago
    I've been a developer for 6 years. I can architect APIs that scale and debug nasty race conditions. But I couldn't make myself go to the gym consistently. The Graveyard of Failed Systems I've tried Todoist, Notion, Pomodoro, habit trackers, morning routines, "don't break the chain," Beeminder, public Twitter commitments. All abandoned within weeks. I read Atomic Habits. Understood the cue-routine-reward loop. Knew about implementation intentions and environment design. Knowing wasn't the problem. Doing was. The Accidental Discovery Last year, my roommate and I made a casual deal. Every night: "Did you work out?" Just yes or no. I went from 1-2x per week to 5x per week. Eight months straight. The weird part? I didn't feel more motivated. I just didn't want to type "no." The Psychology Social accountability is fundamentally different from self-accountability. When you break a promise to yourself, you rationalize. When someone else is watching, the calculus changes: immediate social cost, consistency pressure, external memory, real-time feedback. The research backs this up (American Society of Training and Development):

    10% success rate for goals kept to yourself 65% with an accountability partner 95% with regular check-ins

    Why Existing Solutions Fail Habit trackers with friends: You can lie. Nobody checks. Fitness apps with social feeds: Optimized for sharing wins, not preventing losses. Coaching apps: Expensive. Diluted attention. Discord groups: Too noisy. Easy to disappear. The key insight: the dyadic relationship. One person watching you specifically. So I Built It Duuo is simple:

    Create a goal Add a partner (friend or matched stranger) Check in daily/weekly Partner sees everything They nudge you if you go silent

    That's the core. Streaks and badges just reduce friction. Technical Notes Stack: React Native (Expo) + Convex. Real-time sync matters—partner sees check-ins immediately. Matching: Timezone + goal-type matching worked better than interest-based. Nudges: One per day. More feels nagging, less feels ignorable. Results Users with active partners: 73% check-in rate Solo users: 21% check-in rate Average streak with partner: 23 days Solo: 4 days The partner is the product. Try It It's freemium—core features free, everything you need to test the loop. TestFlight: [https://testflight.apple.com/join/pSZMCBBg] Or just text a friend tonight: "Want to check in daily on [goal]?" Sounds too simple. That's what I thought too.

    • possible98965 hours ago
      As a fellow developer, this resonates so much. We can debug race conditions but can't debug our own lack of dopamine for the gym.

      You hit the nail on the head: Knowing ≠ Doing. The reason your roommate worked where Todoist failed is that humans are wired for social accountability, not just checking boxes in a void.

      I actually leaned into this 'simple check-in' logic when I built PomoPlan Kiddo (pomoplan.live). Even though it’s a Pomodoro tool, I designed it to be highly visual and shareable—specifically for parents and kids to use together as a social contract. It’s less about the 'system' and more about the 'deal' you make with someone else to stay in the seat.

      If you ever want to apply that roommate-accountability logic to your deep-work sessions, it might be worth a look. Glad you finally found the 'gym patch' that worked for you!