I have a small sample but all my New York and SF friends are still single, living in apartments, and grinding at great innovative companies.
My friends in Seattle, Austin, Chicago, seem to have much chiller more fulfilling lives where they have families, real estate, weird funky interests and hobbies.
The problem with this - it leads to group think - you end up being forced to conform.
There's a reason Warren Buffet left NY and went to Omaha.
likewise the best things usually come from the margins - the apple pc didn't come from people working at the best MicroPC companies but hipsters tinkering.
As someone who was born, raised and still living here, I concur.
> 12 years in NYC now and jeez, people here are just boring AF.
I don't feel this is true unless you only visit popular, gentrified areas or never leave Manhattan which is the impression most transplants give me. These people have unintentionally driven out native NYC culture in favor of the fake septic realities peddled on Instagram. There are still interesting people and places all over NYC in neighborhoods you probably never set foot in. Go explore.
Weird advice, How does anyone know what job you'd learn more at? Anyways, when I was a young person the only requirement I had for my first job was would they be willing to hire me.
... ok? i don't get why the tradeoff is worth it?
He openly promotes himself and those that pay him. If you think Musk doesn't have an admin dashboard where he can demote accounts he dislikes and promote his friends, I have some... unkind words for you.
It's about control. Control over your information intake is partial control over you.
We can do so much better than ceding that power to the highest bidder.