"I was kicked out of the conference by the organizers"
"The organizers kicked me out of the conference"
and
"He was kicked out of the conference by me"
"I kicked him out of the conference"
personality disorder w. negative language no disorder w. negative language
total 992 75% 945 25%
but actually personality disorder w. negative language no disorder w. negative language
had a rough time in life 909 80% 79 80%
had a decent time 83 20% 866 20%
(Figures made up.)Though, they do say “these patterns aren’t usually deliberate”.
But even being aware may not mean you really deeply understand why you have a problem.
People who want and choose to view your words uncharitably will do so regardless of what you say. For example, the use of “we” could also be seen as narcissistic or imperial. Managing the sensitivities and psychological state of the reader and observer is the greater part of social interactions than managing your own states.
No shit.