624 pointsby hn_acker2 days ago38 comments
  • mjevans2 days ago
    The Internet should be Unrated and thus Adults Only by default. Just like public spaces. (Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended? Arguments can be made for more controlled spaces but...)

    Have a website and want the chance for kids to see it? Advertise in the headers that it's moderated and intended to be a given rating. Various indexers can pick that up. Complaints can be forward to relevant government agencies (E.G. for a US based website the FTC, false advertising), or as usual other agencies for harder crimes.

    Parents can mark computer accounts as Child accounts and Browsers configured to follow a set of list filtering rules selected by the parent or current guardian (E.G. schools).

    So again. Internet == Unrated Free Zone -- Child Mode == Allow List filtered content.

    • lolinder2 days ago
      > The Internet should be Unrated and thus Adults Only by default. Just like public spaces.

      This is exactly the opposite of the way public spaces actually work, and the way that public spaces actually work is the very justification for laws like this in the first place! You've just taken their exact rationale and imagined a world that would lead that metaphor to the opposite conclusion.

      In most of the real-life US, you can't put porn on a billboard, you can't sell it in a supermarket, and you can't wear it on a shirt. You can't go out naked in public, and you can't engage in public sexual activity.

      If you do want to buy porn or go into a strip club, you have to show ID and go into a distinctly-not-public space behind closed doors, often without street-facing windows lest people in the public space be able to see inside.

      The fact that this is how public spaces work is why these laws are written the way that they are—by analogy to real public spaces vs real adults-only spaces.

      • LorenPechtel13 hours ago
        Maybe that's how things have become but it's certainly not how I grew up. My going to visit my grandmother alone was unusual, not a cause for alarm. I was 7, it involved public transit and crossing major streets. I was trusted to handle it, never had any issues other with getting on (drivers blowing past, not realizing I wanted on)/getting off (this was back when there was a pull cord at adult height.) Even tried using public transit to get to school (didn't work, too many drivers blowing past.) I've been in many other countries--and seeing young kids on the bus is the norm.
      • 79522 days ago
        The problem with the internet is the mixing of different contexts. You can have cute cats, disney fandom, hobbies, politics, porn, extremism all on the same platform. In the real world you don't have strip clubs at disney world or children wandering about in a bar.
        • ty68532 days ago
          In my state children can wander in a bar. They can even sit at the stool in front the bar counter. It's considered better to allow it than have children neglected at home without supervision.
          • wongarsu2 days ago
            The kind of hierarchies we deem necessary are certainly different.

            In most of Europe (spoiler: overgeneralization incoming) nobody would have an issue with a child walking alone through a city, going into a bar and ordering a coke. Nobody is going to stop them from taking public transit to a book store, and nothing is legally or physically preventing them from looking at a couple pages in the latest playboy issue in the magazine rack. Though the clerk might interfere out of his own judgement, and depending on the country they might check your age before selling it. You will however be asked for ID before being allowed in a strip club, brothel or casino, or before being sold a DVD of some action movie.

            • Aeoluna day ago
              > You will however be asked for ID before being allowed in a strip club, brothel or casino, or before being sold a DVD of some action movie.

              The action movie too? I’ve never seen that happen, and I’m certain I rented a whole bunch of age inappropriate DVD’s (or was it VCR’s?) back in the day. Maybe we were required to be ID’ed and the teenager behind the counter just gave zero fucks?

              • tharkun__a day ago
                Again, depends on the country and time I suppose but "Video stores" back in the day used to be completely off limits to kids where I was. Just couldn't get in until 18. I never understood why as a kid.

                One time my parents got me in. They had made a deal with the owner that I'd be shielded by a parent from seeing anything in the store on my way to the small corner of "age appropriate" VHSs, so that I could pick out what I wanted and then I'd have to leave the store while my parents went to rent it, coz from the cashier's counter I'd see too much.

                Of course today I understand but back then I was just like "WTF!, why not!?"

                Funny to think about now. It was a tiny corner I could see and a huuuuuge store I wasn't allowed in.

                • ty6853a day ago
                  This sounds like the one I went to as a kid except the kid friendly stuff was up front. Beyond that was a huge room full of porn tapes, that iirc was locked so age filtering happened at the second door instead.
              • jimkoena day ago
                I've been ID'ed as a teenager when I was trying to buy Skyrim, which at the time was rated for audiences older than me. Gamestop and electronic retailers also generally didn't have teenage employees.
              • I know movie theaters are different from video rental stores - but I once got carded on a date at age 16, to see the movie Johnny Pneumonic. It was rated R. Still had one more year to go. It was rather embarrassing.

                I still have not watched Johnny Pneumonic.

            • GlobalFrog20 hours ago
              Exactly. Î really don’t understand that some take issue of verifying ages. IRL, you can be asked your ID to buy porn magazines, drink alcohol… Why would it be a nuisance to verify the same things online? Is it because you would be asked every time as your data wouldnt be stored for privacy issues? So, people are realizing that automating everything has drawbacks and that interacting with real humans directly has also advantages? Societies have evolved over hundreds of years and that has resulted in sets of rules to organize them. Would you really prefer the real life to have the rules of the internet replace what we have IRL?
              • wkat424219 hours ago
                Because IRL it is just as inconvenient but it doesn't actually happen. I've never been carded in my life. Even when I was in my 20s.
          • Nevermarka day ago
            The US hard-separates children and adults more than other countries.

            In Europe, my ex and our two teen daughters could go out in the late evening and feel comfortable socializing in places that would be unthinkable in the US.

            In general, US culture seems to stratify people by ages in all sorts of ways, official and just cultural. It doesn't feel as socially healthy to me. We are all better for having a wide variety of friends and family around us.

        • EarthMephita day ago
          You used to walk into a newsagent and see the regular papers and magazines, and then the rack of playboy and porn just sitting off to the side, often not that far from the kids magazines and comics.
          • somenameformea day ago
            Dunno if this has changed, but it used to be this way in the US at basically any gas station in a ruralish area by a highway (in other words - stops with truckers), and you'd just have row after row of porn mags. The only 'censorship' is that they tended to be in racks that covered up about 3/5th of their height, so you could see the title and a bit more, but generally anything explicit would be in the lower 3/5th that you could only see if you picked it up.
          • Aeoluna day ago
            Japanese convenience stores still work this way. I’m still a bit bemused every time I see scantily clad ladies right next to the shounen manga, but maybe it shouldn’t xD
        • icepata day ago
          This sounds to me like an argument against platform centralization, as the internet itself isn't a platform, but a protocol. So this is a problem of platforms, and their improper design. Not a problem of the internet itself.
        • yubblegum2 days ago
          The problem with the internet is that it is flat. Society has hierarchies, has always had hierarchies, and the architecture (in the broadest sense) of "RL" societies reflected that.

          Internet came out of military and academia and had a flat namespace. No consideraton whatsoever was given to the idea of a 'social model' for it. This was discussed way back in late '90s in a yahoo group that has since disappeared: social models for communication networks.

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      • yellowapplea day ago
        > and you can't wear it on a shirt

        The widespread proliferation of attire bearing so-called "ahegao" faces demonstrates otherwise.

        • harry8a day ago
          First I’ve heard of ahegao, looked it up.

          That’s not obscene and one can plausibly argue anyone who thinks it so has a dirty mind.

          • You're kidding, right? It's literally a pornography trope.
            • wkat42429 hours ago
              It's a manga/hentai trope. Pornography has latched onto it but it's not pornographic in nature. You really need to know the context to know it's meant in an erotic way, otherwise it's just a contorted face.
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      • ty68532 days ago
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        • wegfawefgawefg2 days ago
          The US is very sensetive about public nudity, but realistically it would probably be fine.

          I dont think nakedness and pictures of sex on 7-11s would suddenly make all the children become meth addicts and fail their schoolwork.

          In tribes everybody runs around naked all the time, and the parents are fucking in the hut.

        • nativeit2 days ago
          There are entire genres of research devoted to this.
        • slg2 days ago
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          • ty68532 days ago
            Recognizing you have feelings isn't wrong. It's how you learn to control your actions and reason your response.
            • slg2 days ago
              Homophobia is the feeling and advertising your feelings of homophobia is an action.

              I'm not even arguing against you having that feeling because a HN comment isn't going to be enough to cure you of that. But just imagine how a gay person reading your comment would feel. On a totally unrelated topic, someone just casually drops the idea of "two dudes kissing... feels wrong". You should recognize that a comment like will make some people's day worse and therefore at the very least you should keep a thought like that to yourself.

              • ty68532 days ago
                Or alternatively, someone else with homophobic feelings will use my comment to reflect and realize it's OK to acknowledge their feelings while acknowledging the rights and freedoms of others. I welcome gays the freedom to kiss in public, just as they must accept my freedom to discuss my feelings.

                It's a two sided coin, and I'm not sure it's a loaded coin as you imply.

                • wkat424219 hours ago
                  It's because you're berating their identity.

                  It's similar to sharing your feelings when you're offended by a black person walking on the street. We don't tolerate people complaining about that. Why would the LGBT community be treated differently?

                  • ty685312 hours ago
                    First of all, I entirely reject your premise.

                    Second of all, I want to really zero in on "we don't tolerate." I want to know who we is, and how they plan on stopping me from expressing my feelings. Because last I checked we even tolerate nazis in the town square in this country, because the alternative is even worse.

                    • wkat424210 hours ago
                      How is it different? People being gay or trans is just like people being black or white. They are born that way. We just give them the tools and trust so they don't have to hide it. Having them hide it doesn't make them not gay. And it doesn't matter because there's nothing bad about that anyway.

                      And how the non toleration works? Well through law. Discrimination and racism are a crime. Even though the white house is full of white supremacists now. And male chauvinists too. Even white women get the short end of the stick. They're already unwelcome in the military (trump fired the female head of the coast guard and the black chief of staff)

                      • ty685310 hours ago
                        I think you're imagining a caricature of someone who gets a negative feeling from seeing homoerotic activity. Whatever it is, you're talking about someone else. I get a negative feeling, but I have no explanation for it nor any desire to stop gay people from being gay or black people from walking.

                        By all means, kiss whoever you like for all to see.

                        Good luck on you law, because it will only be struck. You're going to need a constitutional amendment.

                        • wkat424210 hours ago
                          Perhaps you are not desiring to do so but the people in the whitehouse surely are. Many of their supporters do too.

                          > By all means, kiss whoever you like for all to see.

                          Ok thanks! :)

                          > Good luck on you law, because it will only be struck. You're going to need a constitutional amendment.

                          I'm not in the US, luckily. Here in the Netherlands racist slurs are already illegal, as is discrimination during hiring. Our constitution doesn't work like the one in the US, it actually has less influence than normal law (for example, a judge can't use the constitution in a verdict).

                • slg2 days ago
                  No one was challenging your freedom to be homophobic. I was just advising against being an assshole.
                  • theoreticalmal2 days ago
                    Why is your position that the two guys kissing should be allowed the space to do so in peace, but the person who’s introspective about their feelings should not have that same space and peace?
                    • slg2 days ago
                      I don't know how to make my point any clearer than "No one was challenging your freedom to be homophobic", but if you want an answer for why I called out the casual display of homophobia:

                      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance

                      • ty68532 days ago
                        Tolerance means little if it's about stuff that you have nothing but good or neutral opinions and feelings about.

                        The virtue of tolerance is accepting that which gives you unpleasant opinions or feelings. This is the kind of tolerance that actually takes meaningful effort to develop.

                        You're limiting tolerance to a form where it has little to no value.

                        • What you are claiming is just flatly untrue and intellectually dishonest.
                          • throw10920a day ago
                            Is it? You provided no evidence that it was untrue or dishonest, you just replied in the negative without any effort put into justifying your opinion.
                      • ThrowawayR22 days ago
                        The paradox of tolerance is not a law of physics. It doesn't automatically win you the argument because it was always merely some dude's opinion.

                        Moreover, given that the public mood has turned decidedly anti-progressive, it's really, really a bad idea to bring up the paradox of tolerance because they might just adopt it and decide you're the intolerant ones that don't have to be tolerated.

                        • throw10920a day ago
                          > it's really, really a bad idea to bring up the paradox of tolerance because they might just adopt it and decide you're the intolerant ones that don't have to be tolerated.

                          If the use of a meta-position like this is contingent on a particular set of people being in charge and using it, that means that it wasn't a good meta-position to begin with.

                          Either you believe that we shouldn't tolerate "intolerant" people (and accept that being turned against you when you're not in power), or you don't.

                          Only believing in it (or supporting it) when you have the power to enforce it on your political opponents is hypocritical and deeply evil.

                          • ThrowawayR221 hours ago
                            Yes, agreed. I've made that same point to progressives who quoted the paradox of tolerance many times but it fell on deaf ears. Perhaps they'll listen now.
                      • s1artibartfast2 days ago
                        Every time I see this link people act as if it is a solved problem.

                        It is called a paradox for a reason.

                        It also presupposes that intolerance always outcompetes tolerance in the marketplace of ideas, which I strongly disagree with.

                        The problem intolerance of intolerance actually tries to solve is one of purity. A pure society is the only way to avoid risking discomfort

                    • JumpCrisscross2 days ago
                      Nobody is stopping either, clearly. Where I think OP stepped over the line is in acknowledging their feelings and then shrugging that off. If I see two people of a specific race kiss and sense disgust, I’m going to be introspective. And then I’m going to learn about their culture. Because that would be a clear sign that I’m reacting in ignorance.
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              • wegfawefgawefg2 days ago
                This is not reasonable.

                That doesnt make him prejudiced. He just likes bananas and doesnt like natto.

                I dont want to see morbidly obese people naked either, its gross to me.

                • slg2 days ago
                  >That doesnt make him prejudiced

                  It is literally the dictionary definition of prejudice.

                  From Merriam-Webster[1]:

                  >1. b (1) - an adverse opinion or leaning formed without just grounds or before sufficient knowledge

                  They directly said "two dudes kissing... feels wrong to me but when I try to come up with an explanation I have none." That is an "adverse opinion" they immediately admit to holding "without just grounds".

                  [1] - https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/prejudice

                  • ty68532 days ago
                    Which provides the nexus, are we being prejudiced when we arrest the couple banging on a park hill in view of public? Or is there actually some deteriorated outcome from that other than it don't seem right.
                    • johnny22a day ago
                      for one it is against the law in a lot of places :)

                      Why it's against the law is another discussion.

                      • ty6853a day ago
                        Sure it being against the law allows an arrest. But in reality someone usually has to call it in, and unless there is a reward in it for them their real reason is it is bothering them somehow.

                        If you grill at the park, beer in hand, while grilling up an American classic of burgers and dogs for your onlooking happy family, in reality there is about 99% chance anyone seeing it is at worst going to ask you to put a coozy on it in the politest way (and rarely even that). Even though it is illegal. Now if you get sloppy and harass people, or look homeless, the calls will start.

                        Banging in the park in open sight on a hill? Odds are totally inverted. There's something more than law at play.

                  • I dont have to justify why I dont like bananas. It is intrinsic to me. I am not prejudiced against bananas.
                  • kerkeslager2 days ago
                    A strategic tip: he doesn't care that he's prejudiced, so showing he's prejudiced doesn't do much.
                    • What can he do before you determine that he has justification in his purely qualitative preference? Let a man fuck him in the ass?

                      Your position is not just unrealistic, it is out of sync with how the other 8 billion humans on the planet operate.

                      • kerkeslager14 hours ago
                        I really don't know how you came to any conclusions about "my position", given I did not actually state a position on this.
                        • wegfawefgawefg12 hours ago
                          the way your response was phrased implies to readers that you agree with the accusation of prejudice.

                          if that was not intended, my apologies.

                          an agreement of the accusation of prejudice would imply a lot about your beliefs

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            • roenxia day ago
              If it is at all helpful in interpreting the response, ~60% [0] of people aren't capable of doing that and will interpret you having feelings as equivalent to you accepting homophobic role models. Because they literally don't know how to construct their own values by independent reflection.

              It was eye-opening to me discovering just how limited most humans are on that sort of basic empathy; I had no idea it was that big a blind spot. But it explains some of the weirder downvote storms.

              [0] https://azatris.github.io/levels

            • yellowapplea day ago
              Why should that action be controlled?
              • ty6853a day ago
                Learning to control your actions doesnt necessitate controlling 'that' action, it gives you the option. Having the options beyond following your impulsive feelings is useful.
                • yellowapplea day ago
                  Okay, then why is that particular action "useful" to control?
                  • ty6853a day ago
                    I have no idea what 'that' action is youre referring to. In generic terms some impulse actions are good (move hand from burning thing), some indifferent, and some bad ( ie dog barking annoys someone so they punch the dog).

                    What's useful is the option and ability to do either. I wouldn't want to let go of a hot pan only to have it fall on a baby, even though I'd otherwise drop it.

            • JumpCrisscross2 days ago
              > Recognizing you have feelings isn't wrong. It's how you learn to control your actions

              If you’re afraid of the monster under your bed, the solution isn’t to clench you teeth—it’s to learn there’s no monster.

              Recognising the bias is good. We all have subconscious biases based on fear and disgust. But the solution is to learn more about the thing so it stops triggering a reptilian response.

              • me-vs-cat2 days ago
                > But the solution is to learn more about the thing so it stops triggering a reptilian response.

                That takes time or may never happen, even in the best cases. In the meantime, clenched teeth sounds exactly like what they should do, as they prevent subconscious bias from controlling conscious decisions.

              • d0mine2 days ago
                what do you think an unbiased heterosexual man should feel stumbling upon two men kissing in public?
                • bcraven2 days ago
                  Gosh, how about, _"oh how fabulous that those people clearly love each other"._
                • kerkeslager2 days ago
                  Not a lot honestly. You're not involved, it doesn't affect you in any way, no one is being harmed, why would you bother forming feelings about it?

                  Generally when I stumble upon a couple kissing in public, if I think anything at all about it, it's something along the lines of "Oh, good for them, they're in love," and I'm happy for them.

                  I'm not sure why the genders of the participants would be relevant. I've got my own gender preferences for relationships (I'm a straight man) but again, I'm not involved, so my preferences for myself aren't relevant to the situation.

                  In a larger sense, one of the dumbest things you can do is form opinions for no reason. You aren't obligated to form an opinion on everything you come across.

                  It's literally self-destructive to feel some sort of negative feeling about this. You don't have to. Why would you want to?

                • JumpCrisscross2 days ago
                  > what do you think an unbiased heterosexual man should feel stumbling upon two men kissing in public?

                  Nothing? Maybe an aww? What do you feel when you see animals nuzzling each other? Or kids in the park doing their thing?

                  If you felt disgust or fear in response to seeing a man and a woman of a specific race kiss, how would you respond to yourself?

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                  • kerkeslager2 days ago
                    > Is the implication of this question that a heterosexual man should be aroused whenever they see a heterosexual couple kissing?

                    This kind of wild accusation doesn't further the conversation. What the person you've responded to said is off base enough without you accusing him of saying random things that aren't there.

                    • slg2 days ago
                      They asked a question specifically about the feelings of a "heterosexual man". Why include the sexuality of that hypothetical person in the question if their sexual preferences were not intended to be part of the answer?

                      I don't mean that or my previous questions rhetorically. I was less "accusing him of saying random things that aren't there" and more asking for confirmation on their answer to the reverse of their question: "what do you think an unbiased heterosexual man should feel stumbling upon [a heterosexual couple] kissing in public?"

                      • > Why include the sexuality of that hypothetical person in the question if their sexual preferences were not intended to be part of the answer?

                        They were speaking from the perspective of familiarity. The feeling they’re experiencing is probably mild disgust and/or fear, a typical reaction to the unknown and novel.

                      • kerkeslagera day ago
                        > They asked a question specifically about the feelings of a "heterosexual man". Why include the sexuality of that hypothetical person in the question if their sexual preferences were not intended to be part of the answer?

                        > I don't mean that or my previous questions rhetorically.

                        If you don't mean these questions rhetorically, then stop asking them in the form of a rhetorical question, where you propose an answer and ask a yes/no whether it's correct. If you're really asking, then you don't know the answer, so just ask the question and listen to the answer.

                        For example, if you want to know why the sexuality of the person stumbling upon two men kissing is relevant, you can just ask, "Why is the sexuality of the person stumbling upon the two men kissing relevant?" You don't have to pose a hypothesis like "it's because the person would be aroused by seeing them kiss". That's just a weird hypothesis, limits answers to yes/no, and makes it sound like you're more interested in communicating that accusation than understanding what the person said.

                        Curious people ask open-ended questions, not yes/no "Is X what you think?" type questions that sound a lot like you're accusing them of thinking X.

                        "Why include the sexuality of that hypothetical person?" is a great question, and in fact, "Why is the sex/gender of the people kissing relevant?" is also a good question.

                • Boogie_Man2 days ago
                  He should think AWOOOOGA OH OH OH HUH HIMUH AWOOOGA
              • ty68532 days ago
                Yes I agree 100%, although I admit the reptilian response might never fully attenuate.

                Which leads me to, is public nudity/display of sex something we feel is wrong based on fear or disgust? Or because there is a scientific basis of degraded life outcomes? There can be health hazards in say most indoor spaces but for say printed material those biohazard don't exist. I'm seeking to find if I'm being a reptile here.

                • JumpCrisscross2 days ago
                  > although I admit the reptilian response might never fully attenuate

                  That’s fine. The problem is in the bits between your senses and the reptilian brain. When a kid screams for their iPad on a plane, the reptilian part of their brain is legitimately freaking out. You’re not going to ever shut that off. But the adults in their life should attempt to disconnect it from the stimulus.m

                  If you’ve genuinely never overcome a fear or disgust, this could be a rewarding learning opportunity. Go to a pride event.

                  • ty68532 days ago
                    I've been to multiple pride events, a gay nightclub, drag shows, have gay friends, and been to the odd party that was 90+% gay. Had a great time, no problems, and liked the people. I've learned to look past the feeling, but it doesn't shut off.
                • kerkeslager2 days ago
                  I think it's not even reptilian--it's cultural (assuming you're from the US) based in the American history of Puritanism and related strains of Christianity. There are a ton of human cultures that don't vilify nudity. Germany, for example, has a much more relaxed attitude toward nudity.
    • qball2 days ago
      >Adults Only by default. Just like public spaces.

      This is the attitude that led us to this problem in the first place.

      >Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended?

      They're at much higher risk of being arrested/abducted by the police than they are anything else. This is a uniquely North American neurosis; this happens every day in every other nation. They take the subway to work/school or walk, like everyone else.

      • diddid2 days ago
        I don’t think it’s entirely a mentality issue. I think North America created an environment where you wouldn’t want your 8 year old to navigate New York City. I would let my kids wander Tokyo before I would let them wander Chicago. Japan would not tolerate people spitting at and harassing children where Chicago does indeed tolerate that. I’d say ask me how I know but you could probably guess.
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        • Aeoluna day ago
          Guessing leaves me two options, so was you, or your children that were spit on?

          Also, what could possibly lead to that happening? Someone upset they were noisy? Or just that they dared show up at all?

          • cyberaxa day ago
            Drugs and mentally ill people.
            • johnisgooda day ago
              LA is full of those. Mostly junkies. My girlfriend often has such encounters when she takes the bus. It is awful. I am in Hungary and there is no such issues here. It is extremely safe in comparison. There was a stabbing (one in 30 years) and everyone rushed to help and to catch the perpetuator (who ended up stabbing himself anyways).

              BTW I am a junkie myself, but I do not engage in such behaviors at all. And by "junkie" when referring to myself, I mean that I have an addictive personality, but I do take opiates ("only") for my mental and physical problems. I was never a safety hazard for anyone, including myself (there were times when I was, but had nothing to do with drugs). I do it at home (and before going out, too, due to its positive effects on my mobility and pain), and it makes me more emotionally stable. It sucks though, because when people think of opiates, what they picture is homeless people being unconscious on the streets with a needle coming out of their arm. No one could ever tell me that I was ever on opiates and this includes a lot of doctors. For one, it affects me differently (just like any other psychiatric medications and other drugs).

              Anyways, yeah, junkies are an issue in LA and it pisses me off that my girlfriend has to always pay a lot of attention because one never knows what they might do. They are also loud, they create conflicts, and so forth.

            • zo1a day ago
              And go one step further: The culture that allows drug addicts and mentally ill people to do that.

              And even further: The culture that doesn't want to fix the aforementioned problem with their culture.

          • nilamoa day ago
            You were wrong in both cases! The GP went to Chicago and spit on people just to prove a point /s
      • ty68532 days ago
        The Karens seem to perish in the backcountry. I have seen multiple elementary age children operating dirt bikes and heavy construction equipment on desert dirt roads.
        • I used to take the ATV out as often as I could as a kid, riding for miles over some rather treacherous roads with 200ft drops on either side and no barriers. Times sure have changed.
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      • CalRoberta day ago
        The biggest risk is usually being killed by a driver
      • erua day ago
        > This is a uniquely North American neurosis; this happens every day in every other nation.

        No. Eg Australia is also full of helicopter parents.

        And even Germany has moved a lot in that direction in recent decades, even if they ain't nearly as bad as the US.

      • repeekad2 days ago
        You really think a child is more likely to be abducted by police in NYC than anything else? What are you talking about?
        • ty68532 days ago
          Yes do you have children? I had the police called on me for taking my kid to the park last time i took a vacation out east to a big city. My kid is not the same 'race' as me ergo Karen called and they detained my child for an hour because that was suspicious (I filed FOIA and got bodycam and overheard the witch's complaint on the radio).

          Now imagine there was no parent at all...

        • AngryData2 days ago
          Unless you live in a really bad ghetto where everybody has bars on their windows and people warn you to get off the streets before sundown, US police are the most likely to harm or take people without cause.
          • scarface_74a day ago
            No one in the “ghetto” just randomly takes people’s kids.
        • crote19 hours ago
          Yes? There are plenty of stories of exactly this happening. People see a kid walking on their own, call the cops, who scoop up the kid and charge the parents with child endangerment because they were "abandoned". Get unlucky, and CPS will be involved.

          On the other hand, child kidnapping by strangers isn't really a common thing. The vast majority of kids going "missing" just did something like going over to play with the neighbour's kids without telling their parents, and the remainder is taken by their own family. Of the roughly 800.000 kids going missing each year, only 100 or so are genuinely abducted by a stranger.

          So no, a child being more likely to be abducted by a cop than by a stranger isn't as strange of a claim as it may initially seem.

          • wkat424219 hours ago
            Lol so different. When i was young (<10) I'd often take the train to another city alone. To visit it, or to see relatives. It's not super common where I'm from but it's surely tolerated.

            I'd often see train conductors asking why I was alone and then going "ok, fine" though they would keep an eye on me usually.

        • zo1a day ago
          Well they're not allowed to beat up and intimidate criminals, so what else are they supposed to do? We've turned police into armed Karens.
          • ImPostingOnHNa day ago
            They shouldn't be allowed to intimidate anybody or beat anybody up unless necessary. I shudder to think about such judgements being made based on a high school dropout's likely-malevolent guess at whether I'm a criminal.
    • kennysoona2 days ago
      > The Internet should be Unrated and thus Adults Only by default.

      As much as I kind of agree, I want to fight so much for open access to the internet because it was so useful to me as a child, thirsty for information and starving for nourishment.

      I will say I think these laws are bonkers. Restrict what companies can do with child data, make it clear an account is a minors, that should be more than sufficient.

      • haswell2 days ago
        > I want to fight so much for open access to the internet because it was so useful to me as a child

        As a child of the 80s who benefited greatly from the Internet as a kid (repressive religious parents, and the Internet was a lifeline), I feel extremely conflicted.

        On the one hand, I absolutely want to preserve the kind of benefit we received growing up. On the other, the Internet looks nothing like it did when I was a kid.

        • AnthonyMouse2 days ago
          The dangers of the modern internet aren't boobs though. The 20th century internet had boobs. The modern dangers are state-funded and international they're not going to be thwarted by an age-verification law, are they?
          • verisimia day ago
            > The modern dangers are state-funded and international they're not going to be thwarted by an age-verification law, are they?

            As they write the laws, and mostly people follow them, no, they will not be thwarted.

          • haswell2 days ago
            > The 20th century internet had boobs

            Porn on the Internet today isn’t like it was either.

            • AnthonyMouse2 days ago
              There is more of it now, certainly. Is it worse than goatse?
              • haswell2 days ago
                More of it yes, but the themes and extremes have been shifting over the years as well, with family fantasies and misogyny/sexual violence becoming increasingly prevalent.

                This was actually on the front page recently [0], and while I'm no prude, I do think it's worth taking the trends in porn seriously when comparing the old Internet to the current day.

                - [0] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43196585

                • AnthonyMousea day ago
                  Then you have a different problem.

                  Suppose you have some content that depicts healthy and loving relationships, but is also sexually explicit. The prudes are going to want that inside the porn filter along with the rest of it, even though it's something that does the opposite of what you're concerned about.

                  Meanwhile, insert "watch it for the plot" joke, because we all know that kind of content gets produced when the goal is to appeal to the prurient interest without allocating a lot of budget to writers. But that's actually the problem. Age gates and things are friction. Suppose you want to create something good that appeals to a mass audience because it's thoughtful, but it's also sexually explicit. As soon as you put it behind the wall you lose the large majority of the audience, not because they're minors but because they're adults not willing to swipe their ID in order to watch "porn", whether out of the assumption that anything with that tag on the gate is inherently immoral or concern that someone else would assume that if anyone found out they were watching it.

                  And then the wholesome and salutary stuff doesn't get produced. You'll notice that such content is uncommon, because it's effectively banned in most of the places with even moderate production values. You can't put it on broadcast TV, "porn" is banned wholesale on YouTube, corporations the likes of Disney would generally be skittish about producing it etc. You'll occasionally get something like that on HBO or Netflix but even then the incentive to produce it is lower because they wouldn't be able to license it to as many other places.

                  Which means the main place it gets created is in places like the old Tumblr before the prudes killed it. But killing Tumblr doesn't get rid of porn, it just lowers the quality of it, where "lower quality" is more rather than less misogynistic and insalubrious.

                  • LorenPechtel12 hours ago
                    Yup, and legitimate educational stuff gets rated 18+. Thus people end up with a very unrealistic impression of what's actually normal anatomy.
                • dijita day ago
                  Oh, I vehemently disagree.

                  The platforms that are popular today (Pornhub, XHamster etc;) have restrictions on what they will publish, pornhub in particular has cracked down hard on pornography that does not have a chain of custody.

                  Rape fantasy and domination kinks are more difficult to find than when I was a kid, you don't stumble upon it.

                  If you are a kid looking for boobs the most likely place you wind up is Pornhub or xhamster too.

                  The internet when I was a kid was more like efukt except even less moderated.

                  As for misogyny, it's hard to discuss because everyone has a slightly different definition - even in extreme cases that some people think sex itself is misogyny: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5050613...

                • wkat424218 hours ago
                  I don't disagree that porn shapes our sexual behaviour. But I don't think it's a bad thing. Sex is a behaviour that's sensitive to fashion and tradition just like food, dance and social norms are.

                  If people do more extreme things and they enjoy it then why not? As long as it's fully consensual and of adult age it's only great when people get to explore their sexuality.

              • eszed2 days ago
                Goatse was shock, not porn. Kid sees that, gets mildly traumatized and figures it out later and laughs about it when they're an adult. I'm far more worried about them internalizing mysogyny from mainstream porn; that shit sinks deep.
        • wkat424219 hours ago
          Uh in the early days porn was even less restricted online than it is now. You could grab it at many websites and on Usenet (which was still very common in those days). There wasn't even a "Yeah I'm 18+, stop bothering me" button.

          Only the quality was worse but that was purely due to technical constraints (no streaming video)

        • LoganDarka day ago
          > On the one hand, I absolutely want to preserve the kind of benefit we received growing up. On the other, the Internet looks nothing like it did when I was a kid.

          This is how I feel, too. Nothing like TikTok or YouTube Shorts existed while I was growing up. I know how dangerous those are to me, I can't imagine how dangerous they could be to children. Mostly because anything I come up would probably be a wild overestimation, but I won't know by how much.

          Rather than rotting my brain away with shorts as a child I spent my time trying to find every possible way to game every possible system. That was my idea of fun. Still is, though it's gotten harder and harder for me to find systems that are easy to game, because the types of systems you encounter as an adult tend to have already been gamed to death by everyone else.

      • SamuelAdams2 days ago
        I agree with your ethos, but you must admit that the internet of 2025 is very different from the internet of 1980.
    • cameldrv2 days ago
      Public spaces are most definitely not "Adults Only" by default. You're not allowed to have a big billboard with porn on it, you have to show ID to get into a bar, you have to show ID to buy a pack of cigarettes, and in many states the cigarettes have to be in an opaque cabinet. You can't walk around naked. You can't be drunk in public.

      Now admittedly many of these things are unevenly enforced, but society absolutely does a lot in the physical world to make it appropriate for children.

      • ty68532 days ago
        The children didn't seem worse off in the days where a 2nd grader could bike 5 miles to the grocery store to buy mom a pack of smokes and dad a six pack.
        • ndriscoll2 days ago
          https://www.lung.org/research/trends-in-lung-disease/tobacco...

          > Long term, smoking rates have fallen 73% among adults, from 42.6% in 1965 to 11.6% in 2022.

          > Long term, smoking rates have fallen 86% among youth, from 36.4% in 1997 to 3.8% in 2021.

          I'd say that's better off, not just in childhood but with long term effects.

          • darioush2 days ago
            And how can you attribute this decline to specific laws? Seems it could be a result of many things such as public education & cancer outcomes becoming obvious.
            • abengaa day ago
              When people were told they could smoke from candy-flavored USB-charged devices they jumped back on the train. Education didn't do anything, and no facts are obvious in this new world.
              • Zaka day ago
                Do we have clear evidence for vaping causing harms of similar severity and frequency as smoking?
              • graemepa day ago
                its not directly education, but education influenced fashion. smoking became a blue collar habit in the west, and then no longer cool globally.
              • LoganDarka day ago
                It's because people in general tend to learn and retain simplified versions of things. They hear that tobacco in cigarettes causes cancer but that candy-colored USB-charged devices can come without tobacco and completely miss the fact that nicotine is also a terrible substance to get hooked on. Even amphetamines are better because at least you can stop those whenever you want and all that happens is a few days of being sleepy and then you're fine. Try to stop nicotine cold turkey and, well...
          • ty68532 days ago
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            • butlike2 days ago
              Refined sugar and gambling are two of the hardest ones to quit.
      • mjevans2 days ago
        Nuanced difference: Everyone _has_ to traverse all of public to get anywhere, hence 'decency laws' so parents can take kids around without blindfolds.

        You're taking the metaphor a bit too literally.

        • lolinder2 days ago
          > You're taking the metaphor a bit too literally.

          Or maybe the metaphor is flawed?

          GP says that public spaces are adult-only by default, the parent rightly points out this is nonsense: public spaces are Safe for Work (and for kids) by default, and you have to prove you're an adult to access the adult-only spaces. Which is exactly what laws like this are trying to do by analogy to the physical world.

          It's not OP that's interpreting the metaphor too literally, the public-spaces metaphor is literally the main justification for these laws and GP doesn't understand how public spaces work.

          • AnthonyMouse2 days ago
            There is an important difference in the metaphor. Physical spaces don't have a user-agent. Therefore the space itself has to exclude minors because there is nothing else to do it.

            The internet does have user agents, and for children the user agents are controlled by adults (and if the child has the cooperation of an adult, you already can't enforce age verification). So now you don't need anyone to prove their age in a way that has privacy implications and chilling effects because you can have the child's user agent notify the site that the user isn't an adult, rather than needing each adult having to prove who is. Which doesn't require any form of identification because it's just a flag the adult sets on the child's device. Therefore anything that does require identification is unnecessary and malicious.

            • lolinder2 days ago
              Right, this is fair. I think the metaphor was terrible, and this is a really good explanation for why.
          • rijojaa day ago
            Leaving children unattended with random strangers is bad parenting this should be obvious to anyone.
            • bavell20 hours ago
              Yeah can't believe all those horrible parents taking kids to summer camp...
      • Aeoluna day ago
        > You're not allowed to have a big billboard with porn on it

        Most adults would be put off by that as well, I’m not sure if this is indicative of public spaces.

        That said, I agree that public spaces cannot possibly be adult only by default, as children have to traverse them.

        • LorenPechtel12 hours ago
          But we have a very unrealistic view of what's harmful to children. Non-sexual nudity is not a threat, period. Playboy--yeah, because of some of the tobacco ads clearly aimed at teenagers. The nudity--harmless.

          I grew up in a household where no effort was made to hide adult materials. Oh, the horrors--that don't actually exist. There is exactly zero overlap between my father's kinks (I was the one that had to go through his stuff when he died, I know what they are) and my own.

          As for the billboard--there's sometimes been a prostitute ad on a billboard here. "Full" nudity with strategically placed text. Of course it pretends they are dancers but few people are actually mislead. (Despite a fair amount of misunderstanding prostitution is *not* legal in Las Vegas. It's banned by state law in the two most populous counties, local choice otherwise. However, there's pretty much a truce between the outcall escorts and the police--they don't do other wrongs, the cops don't try to catch them.)

      • drdoa day ago
        I know it's not the point but fun fact we've had big billboards advertising a specific OnlyFans account in a few cities in Portugal, with matching picture (not full nudity).
      • darioush2 days ago
        Just like to offer a counter-perspective that most billboards are basically soft porn.
        • genewitcha day ago
          Not in Central Louisiana. I can't remember the last tittilating billboard I saw.
      • sieabahlpark2 days ago
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    • drdeca day ago
      > Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended?

      Many people do, in fact, do this:

      https://reason.com/2021/06/11/free-range-kids-second-edition...

    • ryototsua day ago
      > Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended

      No, but that just means NYC is a crappy place. I regularly see 8yr olds wandering Tokyo alone.

    • agnishom2 days ago
      > Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended?

      I would hope that the answer is yes.

      This kind of reasoning (not to pick on the commenter above) is troubling. People blame cellphones and social media. But what are they going to do once they put down their cellphones, if not go out? Should they stare at the walls?

      Interacting with strangers is a valuable experience. If we do not encourage children to interact with strangers, should we be surprised when they do not want to participate in civic activities as an adult?

    • erua day ago
      > (Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended? Arguments can be made for more controlled spaces but...)

      Sure, why shouldn't 8 year olds wander a city unattended, and eg use public transport?

      I cycled to school way younger than that. And so did many people in the past.

    • graemepa day ago
      I would allow an eight year old to go around most areas of most British cities. When I was a child lots of kids that age came to my school in London by train unaccompanied. Kids that ago go to school unaccompanied in the town i now live in. I let my kids go to some places by themselves not much older, and do quite long journeys from their early teens.
    • CalRoberta day ago
      You just described why American cities are horrible.
    • 1vuio0pswjnm717 hours ago
      The web, i.e., websites, is only one example of how "the internet" can be used. "The internet" is "Adults Only", assuming internet subscribers are persons with bank accounts and credit cards to pay internet access fees, i.e., adults.

      Web != internet.

    • whatshisface2 days ago
      Here's a list of things that I wouldn't want the police to do, but should be done:

      - Kids should be in bed by 8.

      - They shouldn't light fires in the back yard.

      - They shouldn't run with knives.

      If someone tried to use my support for those things as a basis for 24/7 surveillance of bedrooms, back yards and knife drawers, they'd be insane.

      • isaacremuant2 days ago
        Should be done? Lol. Talking about culture ethnocentrism taking to the extreme. No one forces you not to take your kid to bed at 8, or you for that matter. Stay out of my life.

        The anglosphere is so full of authoritarian people wanting to get into people's lives and even when arguing against surveillance you think there's an agreeable common goal we should all strive to. No. We don't.

        • That was his point.

          Ironically enough I’ve found Americans to be by far the most resistant to authority, both societal and governmental. Maybe what’s shining through from your comment isn’t how you live in a less authoritarian environment, but that its mores just happen to align with yours so you’re blind to them.

          • isaacremuanta day ago
            You misread mine.

            The rest of your paragraph is just nothing. A vague strawman.

        • outer_weba day ago
          99% sure his point was exactly what you said. "Should be done" vs "should be enforced" by the person you demand stay out of your life.
          • isaacremuanta day ago
            No. Another one who doesn't get it. It shouldn't be done.

            The problem is that you don't get it. You think that saying "we all agree on X but it's bad for society" gets you to eventually acknowledge there's a safer way to do X, at least partially.

            I'm saying you shouldn't even pretend the first statement is acceptable and that implementation is the problem .

            Now, that's very nuanced for some and I'll get the "you're missing the point, he doesn't want surveillance".

            No, you're missing it.

            • BlackFlya day ago
              The point you are missing is that he presented what he knew to be norms and used language to indicate that they are norms (should vs must) and you are somehow confused into thinking that he presented them as inalienable facts. Commenters thought that if they pointed out the nuance of normative assertion vs enforcement you would see the distinction but you continue to fail to distinguish a normative assertion from a factual one.

              I also disagree with you that widespread agreement on norms is some problematic slippery slope. Failure to distinguish between norms and objectivity as you are doing is what leads to widespread norms being enforced absurdly by a tyranny of the majority.

            • outer_web20 hours ago
              Okay my bad. I thought you were making an argument against intrusive law enforcement but you were actually saying kids should run with knives.
        • Der_Einzigea day ago
          Thank you!!! This website and anglos in general (aussies are by far the worst) are little tyrant authoritarians who love to lick boots.
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    • jmholla21 hours ago
      Everybody keeps keying in on NYC. I thinks better analogy is would you let your kid travel the world at their whims without you. Because that is the Internet. It is inherently international.
    • linuxhansl2 days ago
      > Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended?

      Yes as long as they know to observe traffic and know how to use the subway.

      Almost all child adductions are parental kidnappings. This "will nobody think of the children..." neurosis is just that, a neurosis.

      • LorenPechtel12 hours ago
        Or runaways.

        I do agree with the basic concept, though--kids being snatched by strangers is very rare.

    • monksy2 days ago
      That's kind of how it has been working before all of these "child safety" laws have come into place. Pornhub admits that they spend quite a bit of money trying to educate people on how to filter.

      https://www.404media.co/the-pornhub-empire-cbc-podcast/

    • __turbobrew__2 days ago
      Usually I don’t see people beheaded in NYC but that definitely exists online.

      I grew up on the uncensored internet, and it was fine, but I would not conflate the internet with a public space. From my experience the actions and content of the internet are very different from the real world.

      • Aeoluna day ago
        I mean, it might be easier to find on the internet, but if you are dedicated enough I’m sure you can find it in NYC too.
    • butlike2 days ago
      Attended or unattended, you still hear people cussin' and ranting and raving on the NYC subway lines.
    • Braxton19802 days ago
      Why NYC and what harm are you referring to? General crime like murder?
    • Gollapalli20 hours ago
      Public spaces should NOT be unrated.

      This is a disgusting worldview. The fact that an 8-year-old can NOT walk NYC unattended is a disgrace. This is what civilized countries actually look like: https://youtu.be/IkVvXVDs5aI That American children cannot reasonably do the same any longer is a FAILURE of the public trust.

    • scarface_74a day ago
      > Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended

      You might be surprised, but back in the day before overprotective parents, “free range kids” were a thing. I was riding my bike all over the city (albeit not New York) with friends and just told to be home by 8:00 with no cell phones. I was 10-11 years old.

      Even in Atlanta where my wife grew up she was riding the public bus at 12 with her younger brother going to the mall.

    • mschuster912 days ago
      > Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended?

      At age 8 I was wandering in Munich unattended.

      But okay, gotta admit, this is Germany we're talking about, so not many issues with hordes of mentally ill and/or homeless people doing anything from drugs to defecating on the sidewalk right next to big tech's offices [1].

      [1] https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/aug/18/san-fr...

      • Jolter2 days ago
        I nearly stepped in human feces in the street in Cologne. Happened to walk down the wrong alley which the homeless were using as a toilet.

        I’m sure someone came along later to clean up but this was early morning. My point is let’s not pretend like Germany doesn’t have homelessness and people sleeping rough.

        They generally are quite harmless though and not generally any threat to wandering children.

      • add-sub-mul-div2 days ago
        If your politicians back then had wanted to cultivate your fear badly enough, they'd easily have been able to find anecdotes or instances to scare you with.
        • Juliate2 days ago
          Not _everything_ is in the hands of politicians. Communities, medias have a significant role too, where they can shame politicians trying stupid takes to shape the reality to their wishes.
      • Braxton19802 days ago
        >homeless people doing anything from drugs to defecating on the sidewalk right next to big tech's offices

        And this harms people how?

        • qball2 days ago
          Littering degrades the commons.
          • Braxton19802 days ago
            In rural areas animals shit all over farms and areas where people exist and commingle
            • brooksta day ago
              People stand up and scream and wave their arms at sporting events all the time, but it is frowned upon in airplanes.

              context matters.

            • AnthonyMouse2 days ago
              Rural fields, like restrooms, are a designated place. If your horse defecates on the sidewalk in the city you're expected to clean it up.
        • mschuster91a day ago
          The problem with the drug addicts is that, well, they are on drugs and behave completely irrationally. Stoners are harmless but cocaine, meth and alcohol are prone to cause aggression and fights.
    • riffic2 days ago
      It used to be quite normal for children to wander cities unattended.
    • amrocha2 days ago
      >Would you allow an 8 year old to wander New York City unattended?

      I know you meant this as a rhetorical question but honestly, the answer should be yes.

      And if the city is too dangerous for kids to live in it now, then fix that.

      Likewise for the internet. Kids are going to use it, we should make sure it’s designed around that.

      That doesn’t mean we need surveillance like this though.

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    • paulvnickerson2 days ago
      we arrest people who have sex in public...
      • mjevans2 days ago
        Only the ones who make a display of it (get seen by others).

        We don't randomly go around asking Papers Please! to everyone on the street.

        • ndriscoll2 days ago
          We do require ID to enter e.g. porn stores and bars though, or to make age restricted purchases.

          I also recall walking a few miles to e.g. the mall, target, walmart, etc. without any adults when I was around 10. I'm not sure I'd characterize public spaces as adult oriented by default.

          • choo-t2 days ago
            > We do require ID to enter e.g. porn stores and bars though

            Only if you look too young (and for the bars it's only for certain beverages), so the affected population is only a small parts of the customers.

        • ysofunny2 days ago
          ...not yet... (and I hope, not ever)
      • AnthonyMouse2 days ago
        > we arrest people who have sex in public...

        Live sex shows are illegal in most places in the US regardless of whether the audience is exclusively adults, so the motivation for these laws is apparently something other than preventing children from seeing them.

      • inetknght2 days ago
        Maybe we shouldn't.
  • saurik2 days ago
    This should be held up as a visceral demonstration of how the "slippery slope" isn't inherently a fallacy, as many oft like to claim: it is merely a form of argument that is easy enough to get wrong--leading to a fallacy when the cause is disconnected--that people have become overly-wary of it, reacting to the premise of the conclusion without even bothering to analyze how steep the slope might be before tuning the idea out :(.
    • armchairhacker2 days ago
      IMO slippery slope is a fallacy when the small step only supports the big step symbolically, shifting the “Overton Window”. It’s true that the Overton Window has some effect, but we shouldn’t avoid taking a step towards the middle just because it’s also a step towards the opposite bad side, if the middle is good.

      Wrt. privacy, the real issue is that the small step helps the big step not just symbolically. ID-based age-verification, even when used for good reasons, gives the state and government access to its people’s history of age-restricted content. If this government decides to, say, prosecute anyone who viewed/bought/consumed (inane) X, it’s far easier vs. a government that doesn’t have age-verification. Both governments face major opposition, but the latter government’s opposition is more effective, because the former’s has already shared their history.

      One thing the article doesn’t state but implies, that I don’t agree with, is: the slippery slope is still a fallacy, when a government first decides to age-gate reasonable X (e.g. porn) then unreasonable Y (e.g. history books). Because said government will receive almost as much opposition and people doing work-arounds for Y, as if they went straight to age-gating Y; although not exactly as much, I generally assume (and hope) the difference doesn't outweigh the benefits of "stepping towards the middle". In the article, X is porn, and Y is facial cream, dating apps, and diet pills. But these things arguably should be age-gated; and even the article’s talking points are not that these are OK for children, but that gating them gives the government data on more people (which is a real slippery-slope, not a fallacy, as explained in the above paragraph), specifically people who don’t watch porn (perhaps some of the readers don’t mind porn viewers being monitored because they aren’t one of them). If states were to actually start age-gating history books, I guarantee there would be serious opposition, including from people who are completely fine with age-gating porn.

      • miki1232112 days ago
        IMO the problem isn't ID-based age verification specifically, it's that such verification is usually impelemnted in a way where the service in question gets a lot more data than they need, with no real control over how that data is kept and processed.

        It would absolutely be possible to implement that stuff in a fully privacy-preserving way, with nothing but basic cryptography, and the government could absolutely enforce that implementation.

        Nobody is actually interested in promoting that though, the anti-big-tech crowd just wants verification no matter what, and the pro-privacy crowd just wants something to get angry about. Nobody is looking for a reasonable compromise here.

        • AnthonyMouse2 days ago
          > It would absolutely be possible to implement that stuff in a fully privacy-preserving way, with nothing but basic cryptography, and the government could absolutely enforce that implementation.

          There are ways to do this which are less bad, but there is no way to do it "in a fully privacy-preserving way" without also making it fully ineffective, because if there is no way to prove who someone is then there is no way to catch anyone providing false age verification as a service to minors. But if there a way to prove that, you've demonstrated the existence of a privacy failure because you could then use the same mechanism to determine what someone is looking at.

          • LorenPechtel12 hours ago
            I don't see how it could be fully privacy preserving. It's the government trying to get the information, the repository is not secure!

            However, you could come close. Sell a simple USB device that generates codes. It can only be purchased in person by showing ID--but the ID is not recorded. Down the road it can only be traced to the device, not to the purchaser. But you would no doubt see them for sale by unscrupulous individuals reselling them.

          • constevala day ago
            You can verify who someone is without knowing specifically who "who" refers to. We do it all the time. I give a one-time code to service X and it knows I am who I say I am, but the code I gave is virtually worthless information. All it knows is that I have credentials, and I am the authorized person to have those credentials because I have physical access to some device, unknown, which is known to belong to said person.
            • AnthonyMousea day ago
              You're omitting the part where you have to disclose who you are to the party issuing the credential. If they issue you a unique credential while knowing your identity then they can trace back all your uses of it to your identity. When that party is the government or within the government's jurisdiction, the government has the capacity to do that even if the services where you use the credential are operated by a third party, so you very much haven't solved the privacy problem.

              The only way to actually solve it is to make the credential non-unique, i.e. issue the same one to everybody so they're fully indistinguishable. That does solve the privacy problem, but then you have the "who is telling the kids the secret password" problem.

              • tzsa day ago
                The party that you must disclose your identity to doesn’t necessarily need to see the credential you will present to the party you wish to demonstrate your age to.

                A blind signature could be used to have the ID checking party sign the credential without seeing it.

                • AnthonyMouse19 hours ago
                  That's just introducing a complex new vector for compromise without getting out of the dichotomy.

                  Option 1: Bob gets a credential that can be traced back to Bob; privacy fail.

                  Option 2: Bob gets a credential that cannot be traced back to Bob, shares it with everyone; defeats the system.

                  Notice also the tradeoff you're forcing for no benefit. If Bob has a unique blinded signature, even if the signer doesn't know the unblinded value, the verifier would and so Bob has to get a new signature for each use or the verifiers could correlate one use with another. But needing a new signature for each use creates a timing attack because now you can see that every time "someone" presents a signature to use a particular service, Bob had just requested a new signature.

                  In this context blinded signatures have only costs and no benefits over universal shared passwords.

        • devilbunny2 days ago
          Yeah, the whole “we have to scan your driver’s license” which has my name, address, etc., encoded is way more than I want to share. I am mostly bald and even my beard is gray. There is no plausible situation where you think I might be under 21.
          • genewitcha day ago
            I've been gray for over a decade and get carded every time, because my state tries to enforce age restrictions.

            Minors don't seem to have much of a problem, though?

        • bigstrat20032 days ago
          > It would absolutely be possible to implement that stuff in a fully privacy-preserving way, with nothing but basic cryptography, and the government could absolutely enforce that implementation.

          Yeah, it seems like it would not be as much of a problem if you were able to have assurances that your data isn't being held onto. If I give my ID to a bouncer at a strip club, he isn't able to scan it and put it into a digital file. He just looks at it*, goes "yep this guy is of age", and gives it back. If we ensured a similar data flow for the Internet, then it wouldn't be nearly as much of a privacy issue.

          *These days I doubt I would even get carded as well. Getting older and all that. IDK how you could implement a similar check for the Internet though.

        • > It would absolutely be possible to implement that stuff in a fully privacy-preserving way, with nothing but basic cryptography, and the government could absolutely enforce that implementation.

          What are some implementation(s)?

          Different implementations vary in effectiveness. Anyone can give a minor access to their device, or a minor can steal their device. So in order to prevent access then, you'd need something like constant face monitoring (via a local model, possible to do anonymously, but expensive and fallible), or legal threats (impossible to do anonymously, because you must track the adult who gave their kid access; and many people are dumb with technology even when it matters, so you either have to fine or jail many people or selectively enforce).

          The easiest implementation I can think, which I'd recommend, is to make locked-down kid devices, require ID or even just a credit card (18+) to purchase a normal device, put the burden on adults to not share their device with kids, and only police merchants (for selling normal devices without ID) and websites (for serving adult content without blocking kid devices). Like what we do with alcohol, except not even trying to police people for sharing, because it would be ineffective and messy. Like alcohol, many kids will get access anyways, although less than now.

          I like this approach because, IMO importantly, kids who don't try to see adult content will be far less likely to, and parents who try to restrict their kids from adult content will be far more successful. I don't think you can stop determined kids with neglectful parents without drawbacks.

    • nkozyra2 days ago
      If you look at it less as "if A then B" and more like "if A then possibly B" as it's usually intended then I think you can strip the fallacy.

      Almost anything is possible, but even in this case it was never inevitable or inherently true that age verification for X meant age verification for Y. Which means the value - if any - for a slippery slope argument is "consider the possibilities X might open up"

      • II2II2 days ago
        It depends upon what Y is. If X and Y require age verification for in-person purchases and age verification is required to purchase X online, it is reasonable to assume that age verification for Y will follow. Some may call that a slippery slope. In reality it is simply a loophole in the law. Either way, it is reasonable to assume there is a bottom to that slope. It is not reasonable to assume that X opens up all possibilities.

        That said, I understand where the EFF is coming from. Data collection and "sharing" is rampant these days. Any meaningful form of age verification opens up the potential for abuse. What I don't understand is their failure to address how to handle restricted goods.

    • heavyset_go16 hours ago
      You're describing the fallacy fallacy, the fallacy that just because an argument might be an example of a logical fallacy, doesn't mean the claim is incorrect.
    • dragonwriter2 days ago
      The slippery slope fallacy is not just the argument style, it is when the argument style is used by the event being held up as a cause is not justifiably believed to be likely to lead to the cited effect. (It is an informal fallacy, rather than a deductive fallacy, and, as such, requires evaluation of evidence, not mere shape of the argument.)

      Also, neither deductive nor informal fallacies mean that the conclusion of an argument is wrong, in any case, so the conclusion of an argument being right does not disprove (or even provide strong counterevidence) that the argument contained a fallacy. Fallacies are about whether and to what degree a conclusion is supported by the reasoning (and evidence, in the case of informal fallacies) offered to support it, not about whether or not it is true.

      • AnthonyMouse2 days ago
        If we do X, Y becomes more likely. Y is bad, making a bad thing more likely is bad, therefore doing X has a bad consequence.

        That isn't a fallacy at all, it's just an argument that requires you to establish its premises, like all sound arguments. People call it a fallacy as a pejorative when they want to dismiss the legitimate concern and shut down the debate even in the cases where the premise is correct.

    • hot_gril2 days ago
      Also why "ad hominem" can be legit. Lawmakers' personal beliefs and incentives say a lot more than whatever generic arguments they pick.
      • hiAndrewQuinna day ago
        Ad hominem is a weird one where the more abstract the argument, the less it applies, but the more concrete and visceral it is the better it is as a first-pass filter.

        Like, think of the worst guy you know. Now think of what that guy thinks about the state of the world, in as concrete detail as you can. That's probably a pretty good reason in itself not to think that, because if you think like that for too long, you risk becoming that guy yourself.

        This feels like it should work far less often than it actually does.

      • BrawnyBadger532 days ago
        This is less true, slippery slope as a fallacy is having large unclear jumps chained together to make a really improbable outcome because each improbable chain scales off all the previous pieces. But ad hominem as an argument is only really valid when the attack against the person is highlighting conflicts of interest, which is more reason for scrutiny of the original argument than it is cause for ignoring it entirely. You should still attack the argument itself.
        • hot_gril2 days ago
          That's what the opponent wants you to do. The law by itself looks ok, but you're dealing with limited information, mainly not knowing how they're going to use it next.
    • GauntletWizard2 days ago
      They no longer teach Rhetoric at schools. Rhetorical arguments have been completely forgotten and debased in the public mind.

      Rhetorical arguments are more important than ever in the age of AI, because AI is our attempt to simulate that. Probabilistic AI mimics rhetoric (inexpertly). It uses past knowledge to predict future behavior (rather, just the next token) based on probability.

      To be clear - I'm not arguing that logical argument aren't important; I am a logical person, and prefer logical arguments to rhetorical ones. I prefer the certainty. I still recognize the need for rhetoric. Not everything is certain, and you have to make decisions based on probabilities and unknowns.

      • Der_Einzigea day ago
        If you saw what modern formal debate looked like in America, you’d be happy that we abandoned teaching it.

        Here’s the beginning of the rabbit hole you need to go down to understand why so many former debaters not only hate the activity but specifically cite it as an example of post-modern neo Marxism:

        https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spreading_(debate)

    • yellowapplea day ago
      Exactly. It ain't a fallacy to call out the folks actively greasing down the slope.
      • Y_Ya day ago
        Grease down a slope, and you'll slide for a day

        Grease down your self, and you'll slide for a lifetime

    • CamperBob22 days ago
      Exactly. It's a fallacy when dealing with logical entities, but humans aren't logical entities.
      • ls6122 days ago
        It’s only a fallacy when dealing with logical relations under certainty. Once uncertainty and probability is introduced the slippery slope just is relating Bayes’ Rule in plain English.
        • dragonwriter2 days ago
          > It’s only a fallacy when dealing with logical relations under certainty.

          Incorrect. Slippery slope is an informal fallacy, which applies to arguments based on evidence not logical relations under certainty. But it is a component of the slippery slope fallacy that the implicit premise (that the precondition that is the subject of the argument is likely to lead to the result that is the endpoint of the slippery slope) is inadequately justified, not merely that a slope from the precondition to the endpoint is presented.

        • CamperBob22 days ago
          Whatever. Point being, calling it a "fallacy" isn't useful or predictive when dealing with people who follow impulses rather than principles.
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      • Braxton19802 days ago
        But laws are not human only made by humans and should be logical
  • janci2 days ago
    Our state-issued eID cards are supposed to have a function that allows anonymous age verification to a trusted party. It should work like this: a requesting party sends a request signed by state-issued certificate to the ID card, the card verifies the request authenticity and responds with a signed confirmation of legal age and that signature then can be verified by the requester.

    No personal information is shared.

    While I do not aggree with pervasive age restrictions, this is a nice technical solution to privacy preserving age verification

    • kallistisofta day ago
      There's an issue with the flow you described; the party requesting verification shouldn't directly interact with the verifying agent (the state) as this leaks to the state the identity of the requesting 3rd party.

      The correct flow for preserving anonymity is: the requesting party issues a challenge token to the user -- the token header describes the type of request (>=18yo?) and the token body is completely random(). The user then takes this token and has the challenge verified (signed) on their side, the signed token is then returned to the requester.

      This way the state never knows the identity of the challenge issuer.

      () Note that this scheme requires good faith on the part of the challenge issuer that the token body is actually random, although it would seem that a simple DH-key mechanism would patch this vulnerability.

      • janci21 hours ago
        I think it is a tradeoff between "everybody can request age verification" and "only state-licensed parties can request age verification". I don't think everybody's ID card should tell anyone if the holder is adult or not, especially wirelessly
    • Aloisius2 days ago
      > No personal information is shared.

      You'd know the state they're a legal resident of as they use state-specific keys used for signatures.

      If the request allows checking arbitrary ages like Apple's, then you can get their age with a handful of requests. If one has to verify every visit, then you can get exact birthdate eventually.

      If the one verifying has to pass data to the verifier site or the request to the verifier has any site/app/company-specific IDs (again, Apple), then you're leaking what you're visiting to the verifier.

      And not to beat a dead horse, but as long as there are jurisdictions that don't require age verification in the world, children can easily use a free VPN or proxy to avoid checks altogether at which point, one has to ask, why do it at all?

      • Y_Ya day ago
        > If the request allows checking arbitrary ages like Apple's, then you can get their age with a handful of requests. If one has to verify every visit, then you can get exact birthdate eventually.

        If you assume a sensible rate limit, that entering the check is voluntary (and unlikely to fail), and that people age monotonically, then it's going to require a lot of cooperation from the victim to get more than a couple of bits of entropy.

        I wouldn't trust Apple here regardless, since they are not the state and have their own separate interests.

        • You can get the age quite quickly with a binary search. If everyone is between 1 and 100, that's no more than 7 requests. The only way this wouldn't hurt privacy excessively is that it has to work the other way around. You, not the app, requests a verification token from a government API that only says you are above 18 which expires once in a while. The token should bear no other information about you and be single use so it cannot be correlated between different sites. For the US, it should also be on a federal level (the verification scheme, not the age verification requirement) to reduce the bits from knowing your state, which is a lot for small states.
      • "...at which point, one has to ask, why do it at all?"

        It seems like this line of thinking would lead you to ask the same question of literally any law, wouldn't it?

        Laws often don't rely on being 100%. Even though there is a law saying people need to wear a seat belt, they can just not wear it! So what's the point, &c, &c?

        • Aloisius18 hours ago
          If you don't wear a seatbelt, you can be ticketed. Not only is enforcement practical, but it has a measurable impact on behavior.

          If you use a VPN to visit a porn site to bypass age verification, you haven't broken the law as it applies to sites, not users. There will be no measurable impact on underage people visiting since the barriers to VPNs/proxies are almost nil while still costing money to enforce on non-tech savvy adults - an overall detriment to society.

          Laws that are unenforceable and don't benefit society are bad laws.

    • archon81015 hours ago
      The new laws, such as the one that just passed in Utah, require kids to get the consent of their parents to install apps. So now add that complexity to the flow.

      https://apnews.com/article/utah-app-store-age-verification-7...

      https://le.utah.gov/~2025/bills/static/SB0142.html

    • drdaeman2 days ago
      Just curious: 1) which country/eID is this? and 2) does it send the date of birth back, or does it perform a zero-knowledge proof that the date of birth is greater or equal than a given value (current date minus age requirement)?
      • jer0me2 days ago
        A handful of states, including California, have a digital ID that can do this. It only sends the fact that you’re over a certain age.

        There’s a video halfway down this page showing the process in Apple Wallet: https://learn.wallet.apple/id/ (notice “Age Over 21”)

    • cogman102 days ago
      Really comes down to "how sure do you want to be that the person is the right age"? Or the "how hard would it be for a preteen to buy beer?" test.

      With an eID card, if it's just saying "yes, this person is old enough" then any teen can swipe a device with an eID card and start using it.

      • lll-o-llla day ago
        So it’s tied to biometrics/other 2nd factor as with passkeys. Wouldn’t stop mini-me of course…
    • rs1862 days ago
      So kids just memorize their parents' driving license when they don't pay attention, and this is bypassed, just like in the old days.
      • djsjajah2 days ago
        No. Kids would need to memorize the private key of their parents id card.
      • Jolter2 days ago
        I don’t think that’s how a state e-ID works.
  • autoexec2 days ago
    > California’s AB-728 mandates age verification for anyone purchasing skin care products or cosmetics that contain certain chemicals like Vitamin A or alpha hydroxy acids. On the surface, this may seem harmless—who doesn't want to ensure that minors are safe from harmful chemicals?

    Why would we want to keep minors safe from "harmful chemicals" but not adults? If skin cream products with Vitamin A or alpha hydroxy acids are harmful, and I'm entirely unconvinced they are (at reasonable concentrations), lets just get rid of them.

    • Item_Boringa day ago
      In the recent years there’s been a boom in kids using skin care - often products though that aren’t meant for them. And with kids I mean pre-teens. Some have even become influencers themselves.

      However, there’s also been a rise in reports in kids damaging their skin by using these products in the first place or using them wrongly (vitamin A and AHA are amazing but they are very tricky to handle and can easily lead to chemical burns / retinol burns …).

      I don’t think there’s any good reason to let kids handle those on their own. And stuff like retinol is starting to get regulated for “everyone” anyway.

    • JumpCrisscross2 days ago
      > Why would we want to keep minors safe from "harmful chemicals" but not adults?

      My understanding is they’re harmful if misused.

      • Aeoluna day ago
        Pencils are harmful if misused. They make for effective stabbing.

        Is this about the chance about being inadvertedly misused to the point they’re harmful.

        I dunno, by all means, don’t sell them to kids, but should we really forbid a 15 year old unless they can show some form of ID? They’re not any more likely to do something dumb with it than an 18 year old.

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      • amrocha2 days ago
        That can be said about pretty much anything though. Don’t drink shampoo!
        • genewitcha day ago
          Why does it have fruit on the bottle then?
          • amrochaa day ago
            Deceptive advertising! haha
    • kmeisthax2 days ago
      California does keep adults safe from chemicals already - there's special Prop 65 labels you have to put on things in California if they contain chemicals.
      • N2yhWNXQN3k92 days ago
        > if they contain chemicals

        If they contain known substances that cause cancer or birth defects*. There are plenty of substances that can harm you that aren't subject to requiring P65 warnings.

      • LPisGood2 days ago
        Quick correction: everything contains chemicals.
        • throwaway813482 days ago
          correct that's why everything in california, including the air in parking garages, is labeled with P65
          • LPisGood2 days ago
            You know what, when I spent a summer there I do remember it being hilarious how many things had warnings.
          • genewitcha day ago
            What percentage of people do you think know that the air inside of a parking garage is carcinogenic?
          • hot_gril2 days ago
            I saw a P65 warning on a car.
            • almostherea day ago
              It's literally on my truck - never bothered to remove the sticker.
    • croesa day ago
      Everything is harmful in the wrong dosage
      • LorenPechtel11 hours ago
        Yup. "Hazardous" simply means something where it's quite possible to encounter harmful quantities. And it's possible to have substances intended for human consumption that meet the definition of "poison".
    • squigz2 days ago
      Probably for the same reason we allow adults to smoke and drink but not children.
      • balamatoma day ago
        Not really.

        The reason "we", scratch that, the reason the state allows adults to drink and smoke is because adults have been known to fight back, sometimes quite effectively, when they feel like something is been "taken away" from them. The obvious example here is the rise of bootlegging during prohibition; all that did was empower the organized criminal class, rather than get the nation to realize the awesome benefits of being a sober working stiff. That's why contemporary Western states disincentivize harmful goods by taxation, and gradual, rather than total, prohibition.

        Consuming liquor and tobacco are also traditional communal activities, dating from before the total enclosure of industrial civilization upon people's personal lives. Meaning, people would actually be inclined to fight for the right to carry on like they're used to. This is one of the greatest motivators ever; very much not the case with the more novel intoxicating substances, even where those might actually be less harmful than good old alcohol and nicotine.

        I'm all for creating an environment that encourages people to make optimal choices about their own lives. Generally, we do not live in an environment that even makes that possible. Case in point, why would one be driven to apply the toxic skin creams in question, if they did not have toxic beauty standards imposed on them in the first place? How do "we protect the children" from those, when all over the world conformance with Adobe Photoshop's idea of the human form can directly determine the social market value of a human being?

        The answer is, we have no idea - we're not even asking ourselves the questions that make sense, because "protecting the children" is a moral scam. A just society would protect the inexperienced and the powerless, regardless of age - and, conversely, acknowledge the personhood and autonomy of all citizens in accordance with their demonstrated degree of self-awareness, rather than determine their human rights by some involuntary biological marker. I don't know how that society would work in practice, I'm only here to remind you that instead we live in another kind of society - one that is based on the non-consensual extraction of human resources. Such a society has no incentive to "protect" most of anyone. All it needs is to raise obedient children into dependent adults. (It also needs a stable population of scapegoats - "juvenile delinquents" growing into "hardened criminals", who are to be blamed for all dysfunction.)

        Minors are an oppressed minority. They are subjected to extensive brainwashing, and deprivations of liberty that society claims are "for their own good". These rather serve the preservation of power structures, which start with the oppressor's drive to forget their formerly oppressed status. Thus, the purpose of age verification can only ever be the violation of privacy and autonomy of all market participants; it will do absolutely nothing to prevent kids from emulating the harmful and unmoderated behaviors of the adults around them.

        • immibis20 hours ago
          > The reason "we", scratch that, the reason the state allows adults to drink and smoke is because adults have been known to fight back, sometimes quite effectively, when they feel like something is been "taken away" from them.

          Which is also the same reason adults are allowed to do all these other things, like buying toxic skin creams.

          • balamatom15 hours ago
            Strictly speaking, you got me there! Much like narcotic preparations, toxic cosmetics have been known throughout history - so both cases do boil down to the same dynamic after all. (Though there are interesting divergences e.g. in the gendered targeting of the products in question, or their application for altering the state of the self, vs. the perceptions of others, and so on. FWIW I consider both to be harmful and habit-forming; but a habit is a form of personality alteration that must be fairly reckoned with.)

            My point is that fighting to get one's unhealthy "toys" back doesn't require any more maturity, self-reflection, or responsible decision-making, than that of a literal toddler. But neither does embodying a "rational economic agent", the very thing notionally expected of well-adjusted adults! This is a compound effect, eventually resulting in the present grossly miscalibrated governance model, where homegrown "growth hackers" run circles around the legislators.

            Generously, "think of the children" can be seen as an escape hatch: reverting to some sort of universally shared value to prompt people to reflect on their present choices. Not very effectively, though: "Well I'm building a better future for my children, by selling all of this poison here to your children, what?" And, like one of the parent posters said, consumers don't just stop needing protection once they reach the age of majority. Clearly, we need better consumers.

        • squigza day ago
          Spot the American. Not everyone has such an inherently negative view of "the state"
          • balamatoma day ago
            Frankly, I've observed the exact opposite: Americans strongly tend toward the mandatorily pro-social, and it's their vernacular discourse which treats the social establishment as fundamentally well-intentioned and legitimate.
  • robto2 days ago
    I wonder if there's any chance of technology like Verifiable Credentials[0] getting any adoption because of these laws. I think there are legitimate use cases where you would want to say, "hey, some third-party authority can vouch for me that ____", and not reveal to the third party who's asking for verification and not reveal to the party requiring verification any other claim besides the specific one that they need (say, age in this case).

    [0]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Verifiable_credentials

    • nesk_a day ago
      What's insane is that, in France, we have France Connect, which is exactly what you describe: a third-party authentication platform maintained by the government.

      Lately, a new law just passed to force porn websites to check the age of visitors. I would have been fine with an authentication going through France Connect:

      - the gov knows which website you went to, just like your DNS provider would, but it doesn't which content - and the website knows which content you've watched but not who's watching.

      Best of both worlds!

      But no, we have to send a copy of our ID card to the website, which is INSANE because the website knows WHO you are and WHAT you're watching.

      • archon81015 hours ago
        We need this in the US. Otherwise, once laws like this https://apnews.com/article/utah-app-store-age-verification-7... go into effect, 3rd party app stores, like apkmirror.com, etc. are going to need to pull out of the US unless there's a service like that in the country. It's starting with Utah, but many states and even the feds are planning similar laws.
        • threecheese13 hours ago
          What knock on effects do you see here, for state-led legislation about online privacy? Do we see privacy-conscious vs restrictive US states, and do folks in the (let’s say it, blue) states host US-centric Mullvads? Like out of state abortions.

          Going further, how might this effect folks having “freedom is more important than safety” beliefs, given they reside in areas more likely to deny civil liberties-ish rights in the name of family values-ish rights, when this starts to really hit them where it hurts? Everything they do or say online becomes traceable to them, for a notoriously vocal-on-social media set.

      • notTooFarGonea day ago
        It's mind boggling that governments don't offer that service for a lump sum per month
  • bobthepanda2 days ago
    While I don't support age verification (I don't think that would solve anything) two of the targeted product categories, skincare and diet foods/supplements, are some of the heaviest spending ad categories I see nowadays, and feel very huckster-y as well.
    • 92834092322 days ago
      The answer isn't age verification but putting them under the scrutiny of the FDA. Supplements have almost no regulation and will soon actually have none since the head of the FDA is a big fan of supplements and has a supplement company. Supplements being regulated would fix so many issues in this space.
  • gabeioa day ago
    Privacy Passes for adults where age verification is needed would be an interesting solution. The government hands you as many tokens as you’d like to access websites as an “adult”. Defaulting to getting tokens so that it isn’t only people accessing websites for only adults which are grabbing tokens. I’m know this is a newer project but Kagi implemented this as a way to completely decouple users from their searches, when the user would like to be fully anonymous.

    https://privacypass.github.io/

  • abc123abc123a day ago
    The internet should be free, open and uncensored. Parents should then have the obligation of looking after their children.

    Yes, that means not buying a smartphone and give it to your 3 year old.

    I think, slowly, the world is starting to realize this.

    • >Yes, that means not buying a smartphone and give it to your 3 year old.

      Agreed.

      >I think, slowly, the world is starting to realize this.

      Unlikely. You'd be surprised at the proportion of parents that want to outsource parenting to the govt.

    • jrmga day ago
      The age you picked here makes your argument obviously right. But what age _should_ people get a phone and be able to use it unsupervised? I don’t think it’s reasonable that it be 21 or 18, even 16 feels quite puritanical.
      • borgdefenser2 hours ago
        It is why I am happy to be child free.

        I am someone who would probably not own a smart phone if it wasn't such a pain to not have one.

        I can see with the kids in my extended family how even by 12, not having a smart phone is going to damage your social life. It was awkward enough for me at that age with rotary phones. I couldn't do that to my kid if I had one.

        We have put ourselves in a really bad spot. Even if a parent wants to do what is best for the kid, I have no idea what that is. To pretend there is some simple and obvious answer here is completely divorced from reality.

  • washadjeffmad2 days ago
    Who could have predicted this, though? If only there were some, no, any benevolent corporate deity poised to provide trusted global identity services for an event exactly like this.

    If only this hadn't come out of the blue, maybe there'd be someone out there, right now, who could make it so that your identity traveled with you everywhere across the internet, an authentic digital fingerprint and passport so invisible that you can't even see or access it to keep people from having to prove themselves over and over and over again.

    What a solution in search of a problem that would have been!

    • genewitcha day ago
      Google should be able to say that I've had continuous access to my Gmail account since 2005 and therefore it's impossible for me to be under 18. Or 21.

      Right?

      All of a sudden, the internet is incapable of tracking me with that much fidelity. They don't know how old I am. Discord knows how old I am. I never told them my birthday.

      This gets a big "hrrrrrrr. Durrrrrrr." From me.

      • washadjeffmada day ago
        Like "appearing under the age of 35" for carding for alcohol (note also that there's no legal requirement to verify age prior to sale), that's not an invalid method of age validation; there is no requirement for precision, only accuracy.

        Having an account that's at least 5 years old, assuming a legal age of 13 for registration on most services, should be enough.

        Some services already do it this way. Others offer to scan and analyze your face or ID. Leisure Suit Larry 1 used 1960s trivia for age verification.

        Given the list of states and awareness of some notable tech companies that operate out of them, it sounds like someone is doing a little competitive market making with the help of their legislators.

    • 3np2 days ago
      How have you not heard about Worldcoin?

      /s/s

  • tfourba day ago
    This wouldn't be a problem if the U.S. had decent privacy laws that were enforceable against both private companies and the government, as well as some form of actual government issued ID.

    The German constitution actually provides for a "right to informational self-determination", i.e. any individual has the right to decide what happens with their personal information, including what websites they visit.

    We also have a standard governmen-issued ID. In combination that makes it possible for private companies to offer web-based age verification, that check you ID-number against a government-provided service, verifying the age but not providing additional information. And because of the privacy laws, it would be a criminal offense to store the identity of the person being verified or for that information to be connected with the website you visit.

    The website in turn gets a legal record that they verified the age of the person, but not necessarily the actual identity of the person.

    Ideally, in the end each party only gets a piece of the total picture but by confirming to each other that the piece they have checks out, you can confirm your age to a porn site without any single party being able to piece the entire picture together.

  • dinkblam2 days ago
    age verification should be backed into the browser and not into websites.

    parents should be able to access a (password protected) setting in any browser that can exclude some types of websites (like porn).

    governments should be free to go after any website not respecting that setting.

    but forcing the age-verification onto websites is just moronic.

    • baby_souffle2 days ago
      > but forcing the age-verification onto websites is just moronic.

      Agree.

      > parents should be able to access a (password protected) setting in any browser that can exclude some types of websites (like porn).

      How would this work? Who's going to set up the taxonomy / classification tree for every domain/site on the internet just so a guardian can say "yes to drugs, no to porn, no to news, no to weapons..."?

      Or if that's not the implementation, how would an arbitrary site signal to the browser what the age limit is? Once you move beyond a binary "require parent consent for $domain" flag, you're quickly approaching traditional parental control software.

      I know I'm not the only one one this site that made a bit of spare $ back in the day helping kids at school go _around_ overbearing parental controls.

      • generalizations2 days ago
        This is the core fallacy I see in proponents of such rules: they think the rules can be enforced.
        • convolvatron2 days ago
          I think the parent had an even more important fallacy - that the rules can't even be _stated_. there is an implicit presumption that everyone everywhere agrees on what material is appropriate for what people and at what age.
          • evil-olive2 days ago
            yes, and that presumption is even older than the internet. this is from a 1964 Supreme Court decision [0]:

            > I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced within that shorthand description ["hard-core pornography"], and perhaps I could never succeed in intelligibly doing so. But I know it when I see it, and the motion picture involved in this case is not that.

            0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_know_it_when_I_see_it

      • LorenPechtel11 hours ago
        Define a set of things that many will want to censor on. Put it in censor.txt. A browser in censored mode pulls the file for the domain, checks if it contains any tags that it's set to block. It's treated like anything else a web browser might load, cached if possible. In uncensored mode it doesn't matter if it exists, it's not downloaded.

        Make a standard set of tags and a yes/maybe/no response to them. (Maybe is for a website that has user content that permits such stuff.)

        I do agree it would be defeated in many cases, though. Tech-ignorant parents aren't going to be very good at stopping tech-savvy kids.

      • michaelmior2 days ago
        > How would this work? Who's going to set up the taxonomy / classification tree for every domain/site on the internet just so a guardian can say "yes to drugs, no to porn, no to news, no to weapons..."?

        This isn't really an answer, but the same problem exists with current age verification laws. I think the main difference with traditional parental control software is that the burden would be on the site maintainer to accurately report the appropriateness of their content. If not, they would be legally liable. Of course this introduces the problem that foreign entities not subject to the law are effectively exempt from the requirement.

        • baby_soufflea day ago
          > I think the main difference with traditional parental control software is that the burden would be on the site maintainer to accurately report the appropriateness of their content.

          What would reddit.com do?

          > If not, they would be legally liable.

          We already have CDA/230.

          > Of course this introduces the problem that foreign entities not subject to the law are effectively exempt from the requirement.

          And so this whole endeavor was just defeated with free trial to any of the _many_ VPN services out there. Even a genuinely incurious person will eventually trip over a free/cheap VPN offer just browsing youtube.

          • michaelmior16 hours ago
            I would think that that CDA/230 would probably have to amended if such a new law were to make any sense.
        • stvltvs2 days ago
          Have browsers default block anything that doesn't label their content (allow this setting to be disabled and locked down in parental controls), then hold websites liable for willfully or negligently mislabeling. Exceptions for good faith efforts to label correctly. Maybe a special label for user generated content that holds companies a bit less liable for it.
          • evil-olive2 days ago
            > Have browsers default block anything that doesn't label their content

            "have" is a bit ambiguous here. I assume you actually mean "have the government require"?

            in other words, if I develop a browser, I could be fined or thrown in jail for not implementing your "default to blocking anything unlabeled" strategy?

            since implementing a browser is a vast undertaking, what about if I maintained a fork of Chromium or Firefox that simply disabled that check?

            we had this exact same debate 20ish years ago [0] except it was about the specter of TV piracy and file-sharing. the proposed solution was the same, though - require software that could be used for piracy to incorporate a specific check, and make it illegal to distribute software without that check. it was a terrible idea then, and remains a terrible idea now.

            0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Broadcast_flag

          • baby_soufflea day ago
            > Exceptions for good faith efforts to label correctly. Maybe a special label for user generated content that holds companies a bit less liable for it.

            We already have CDA/230

          • michaelmior2 days ago
            > Have browsers default block anything that doesn't label their content

            This doesn't solve the case for entities not subject to this law. They can just label their content as totally safe and not have to worry about penalties.

      • notatoad2 days ago
        i think it would be reasonable to legally require websites to classify themselves.

        if it's illegal to show porn to minors, all a website should have to do to comply with the law is to send a header saying "this is porn" and leave it up to the browser to decide whether or not the human using the browser can see it or not.

        • LorenPechtel11 hours ago
          1) I disagree with "porn" as a tag. Much too broad. And it should distinguish between educational stuff and entertainment.

          2) Look at my earlier post--you don't even need to compel it. Just make browsers in censored mode not able to access sites without classification. You have a kid site, you'll comply. Your subject matter is either not for kids or is something kids aren't going to be interested in, you can ignore it.

      • readthenotes12 days ago
        I'd say the real issue is that it's difficult to outsource parenting to government agencies without some collateral damage
      • squigz2 days ago
        > Who's going to set up the taxonomy / classification tree for every domain/site

        I would think adblock lists are a pretty good example of similar efforts (that is, people classifying large amounts of random sites), so I don't think that would be impossible.

        Such things don't need to be perfect, either - just good enough.

        (I don't agree with age verification efforts or even parental control software; just pointing out it's not impossible)

        • baby_soufflea day ago
          > so I don't think that would be impossible.

          Ok, what bucket(s) does reddit fall into?

          > Such things don't need to be perfect, either - just good enough.

          I think we disagree about how "good" this effort will be given that it's a supremely subjective task. Your porn is my sexual education and wellness material...

          And if it's going to be down to individual parents to make the most appropriate choice for their kids, this whole thing is just regular parenting but with extra steps.

          • squigza day ago
            > Ok, what bucket(s) does reddit fall into?

            Well probably various. What is your point?

            > it's a supremely subjective task

            Yes, but this is beside my point. It can be good enough to meet people's subjective needs. All I meant was, solutions like this don't need to perfectly categorize every single site on the Internet to be good enough to be useful, for those who think such things are useful.

      • simion3142 days ago
        >How would this work?

        Pornhub knows they do not want to have trouble so they will respect the browser setting and not serve minors. There could be an institution that can receive complains about websites not using this API and those wbsites can be blocked from the country and fined if possible until they implement the API.

        We need all mobile and desktop OSes to make it easy for parents to setup accounts for their children, the church could also educated the people instead of just complaining.

        It is not perfect, soem clever kid can find a way to reset the BIOS/UEFI and install Ubuntu with a fake age on his PC , but most parents can feel safe and we would not have to show our ID card to Pornhub or even Steam because some game shows nipples and nipples are more dangerous in USA then nazi propaganda.

        • JumpCrisscross2 days ago
          > We need all mobile and desktop OSes to make it easy for parents to setup accounts for their children

          How about don’t give your children devices until they’re old enough for them. The kids of the rich are already mostly device free. Attention spans and eye contact shouldn’t be a privilege.

          • simion3142 days ago
            >How about don’t give your children devices until they’re old enough for them. The kids of the rich are already mostly device free. Attention spans and eye contact shouldn’t be a privilege.

            I had access to a computer since 14, my bother since 10, we are both OK.

            My solution is to protect us the normal people from the extremists that want the government to protect their children, this solution is making the parent responsible if their children get access to bad websites or apps. But as I said is not 100% perfect.

            But I agree that you should not give your child a device and at teh same time demand the government to do your job for you.

    • Terr_2 days ago
      I wouldn't say every browser, but the correct place for the policy is on the device of the parent who is demanding the special feature. Sites' obligations should be limited to basic disclosure of "this site might contain X" metadata.

      Benefits:

      1. Orwellian abuse: No creepy-ass super-abuseable government panopticon knowing every goddamn service you've ever made an account on, with the ability to arbitrarily revoke them and/or block new ones.

      2. Costs: The majority of the costs of creating and maintaining the system fall upon the people who actually use it and want it to exist, rather than a bunch of other adults across the globe.

      3. Parent focus: Most enforcement exists in a physical realm where parents/guardians at least have a chance of understanding, monitoring, and managing it. "Little Timmy is using Daddy's phone" can be determined instantly at a glance.

      4. Exceptions: If the child has some health-class homework and can't access the right Wikipedia pages anymore, the parent can easily grant exceptions and revoke them.

      5. If someone's religion says that unclad ankles are smut, then their church can create their own site-rating-site and adherents configure their family's devices to it.

      • Braxton19802 days ago
        What if a site doesn't comply or lies? Who is enforcing this
    • butlike2 days ago
      Kids have nothing but time and energy to learn about their world, so you get weird things like the children rootkitting your device or "the home computer" on their quest to see salacious corners of the web.

      As always, parenting starts and stops with the parent. The internet should be open and if the child sees something that upsets them (or makes them question one of their assumptions), it's the parent's responsibility to cultivate an environment where the child feels comfortable talking about it with them.

      • Der_Einzigea day ago
        I learned that the password my parents used on the computer was “Neo Maxi Zoom Dwebie” by password cracking my windows XP with rainbow tables at like age 11.

        I hate the breakfast club and think it’s one of the examples of movies which idolized anti-intellectualism and basically celebrates bullying nerdy types. Sadly ironic of a password choices from my “nerdy” family.

        If the rainbow tables didn’t work, I’d have rootkitted/RATed the computer.

    • barnabee2 days ago
      Age verification should be baked into the parenting.

      It's about the only place it might have the intended effect anyway, and has the advantage of not enabling mass surveillance.

    • bobthepanda2 days ago
      it would be less terrible if there were some simple, Apple ID-like way to simply get redirected to a govt website, put in your driver's license, and the website only gets a token back that says "yes over age/no underage".

      The data already exists, it's what bars use to scan IDs with handheld readers IIRC.

      • baby_souffle2 days ago
        > The data already exists, it's what bars use to scan IDs with handheld readers IIRC.

        Sorta, yeah.

        But the reason that works is because there's a human guarding the door that can assert that the hand presenting the ID is attached to a face that looks just like the one on the ID.

        Otherwise a very smart 17 year old would just get their hands on the UUID or whatever for literally any ID that belongs to somebody that's 18+. Within _hours_ of this type of system going into effect, you'd have the age/id version of bugmenot.com

        • burnished2 days ago
          You're implying smart 17 year olds don't make it into bars.

          You rarely need anything approaching %100 compliance in order to have an effective policy, so if anything you're advocating for its effectiveness when you suggest the only people that would be in violation are the rare precocious kid.

          • AnthonyMouse2 days ago
            But that's the difference. For a 17 year old to get into a bar, they need to, themselves, acquire a fake ID. Anyone selling that physical object in your jurisdiction would then be subject to arrest.

            On the internet, one smart 17 year old sets up im-old.lol and then every kid everywhere has a one-click age verification bypass and the service is run by an anon on a server outside the jurisdiction.

          • baby_soufflea day ago
            > You're implying smart 17 year olds don't make it into bars.

            Sarcastically, yes :).

            It's a reference to the "you must be over 18/21 to enter this porn/alcohol site" banners. Even a "smart" 17 year old will figure the banner out.

        • bobthepanda2 days ago
          As far as I’ve done, I’ve had to upload drivers licenses to websites before (e.g. to open an online banking account or whatever) and I don’t recall doing anything other than uploading the license.
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      • HWR_142 days ago
        The biggest selling point of those handheld readers bars use is to gather data from your ID, not to in any way verify your age. It's the exact opposite of what you said.
      • mrweasel2 days ago
        Countries like Denmark already have this. It's called MitID, and it a online government run sign in solutions used by banks, government institutions, online marketplace as so on. I believe it already contains an age "claim", so you can get just the age of the person logging in and nothing else. It's built on OAuth/OAuth2 I think, so it should be fairly simple to add the age information if it's not already there.
      • monksy2 days ago
        That barcode contains a lot more than just your birthday. It contains all of the info on the license front (which includes your drivers license). It's a bit absurd that the bar is copying down your details in order to get into their bar. (They often store it and can/will use it for bar bans)
      • butlike2 days ago
        "I'm 65 years old, and the age verification is failing"

        Operator: "let me take a look sir. It's probably a bug. It's definitely not the censorship metrics opaquely changing behind the scenes, sir."

      • dinkblam2 days ago
        i wasn't really talking about about any "verification". just a way for parents to disable what they want their kid to be able to browse. if parents don't care to change the setting, their kids would be free to browse anything.
    • cls592 days ago
      And then kinds just learn how to download and run an open-source browser produced outside of the country that does not implement the setting on the client side.
      • johnnyjeans2 days ago
        I consider that a feature. Working and training problem solving skills and persistence through trial-and-error to the degree required for that kind of thing is great. I feel it's underappreciated in potential that treating a wide swath of these kinds of rules as nothing more than cattle-fences can have a shockingly positive effect.

        One of the biggest problems that grows with each generation, is how do you get the youth to actually engage in constructive development of real skills? How do you get them to be interested in something that will be useful for society down the line? Quietly looking the other way while a statistical minority breaks some of the safety-rails of society basically solves that problem. Breaking the rules is cool. You're basically exploiting the rebellious nature of the youth to trick them into learning useful skillsets. So long as the hurdles to circumvent the rules remain reasonably involved to overcome, and the secret intention remains unspoken, you basically double up the rewards of the rules.

        • Der_Einzigea day ago
          So the desire to jerk off is the ideal catalyst for being subversive?

          I mean it’s not that I disagree with you, but this is what you are saying!!!

      • mrweasel2 days ago
        I was going to say that it's a great way to teach teenagers how to modify and compile a browser.

        Moving the verification to sites also isn't going you any good, as the site owners could just move to more liberal countries.

      • notatoad2 days ago
        the point should not be to make it impossible for some people to view certain content. the point should be to make it possible for a parent who controls their child's device to put restrictions on what that device can do - and that might include removing the ability to run unapproved apps.
      • TylerE2 days ago
        Or just uses any of a gazillion proxies that strips the "I"m under 18" bit.
    • JumpCrisscross2 days ago
      > age verification should be backed into the browser

      You want a mandated block of government code in every browser?

      • michaelmior2 days ago
        Such a law doesn't necessarily have to require that every browser include the content filtering code. Only that websites must correctly report the content they serve. Of course then the obvious workaround for someone wanting to access restricted content is just to install a browser that does not enforce the restrictions. But that's a problem even if browsers were "forced" to implement this anyway. There would always be a browser out there that didn't adhere to this rule anyway.
        • JumpCrisscross2 days ago
          > Of course then the obvious workaround for someone wanting to access restricted content is just to install a browser that does not enforce the restrictions

          You really see a world where such a law is passed and such browsers aren’t outlawed?

          • michaelmior2 days ago
            Yes and no. There are (at least) two ways to effectively outlaw such browsers. One is penalties for the browser distributor. However, this really only applies to entities that are subject to US law. Of course the law could go one step further and try to go after ISPs for allowing access to download them, but that's already proved difficult in other arenas.

            The other way to limit access to such browsers is penalties for users of those browsers. But that feels even less likely. Even if such a law were on the books, how would it be enforced? Either someone would have to report someone using an "illegal" browser or perhaps some method of fingerprinting that is somehow tied back to the actual user. Both of these seem far-fetched to me.

            So perhaps such browsers would be outlawed, but I'm not sure it would practically do much.

        • Braxton19802 days ago
          > Of course then the obvious workaround for someone wanting to access restricted content is just to install a browser that does not enforce the restrictions. But that's a problem even if browsers were "forced" to implement this anyway. There would always be a browser out there that didn't adhere to this rule anyway

          So why are you for it if the solution isn't valid?

          • michaelmior2 days ago
            I didn't say anywhere that I am for it.
      • dinkblam2 days ago
        why government code?

        having a checkbox that corresponds to info passed with the HTTP requests is hardly something that requires a library or more than a few lines of code

        • JumpCrisscross2 days ago
          > why government code?

          Legal age verification in the browser means legislated code. Not line by line, necessarily, but state code in the browser.

    • genewitcha day ago
      And who decides what browsers are okay? Is it Apple and Google?
    • Braxton19802 days ago
      Why
  • TZubiria day ago
    We should recognize that this is a political issue and that a problem exists that needs a solution.

    One party to the debate claiming that the solution (age verification) to the problem (kids accessing adult content) is imperfect, is worthless.

    We know what the position of the EFF or FSF is on the matter, they prioritize online privacy over kid safety, got it. But if the message is going to be that the solution has a problem and there is no more contributions, then the implicit proposal is that there needs to be no solution and the initial problem is ignored.

    If the opposition to current age verification take this naive approach of denouncing age verification and offering no solutions, they will be kept at the sidelines while the adults vote in the senate for these solutions. Newsflash, you lost the debate, if you want back in, you are going to need more than this.

    • c22a day ago
      Online privacy is a key component of kid's safety on the internet.
      • TZubiria day ago
        It's also a huge risk.

        The privacy of attackers is a risk to kid safety.

        The privacy of messages sent is a risk to kid safety (law enforcement should be able to access them)

        The privacy of chilren activity is a risk to their safety (Parents should be able to view what their children do.)

        • c22a day ago
          Yes, parental responsibility is perhaps the most critical component of kid safety.

          However, I know of no children who independently acquired and maintain a device with a connection to the internet. Are you entirely sure we need a governmental edict to allow parents to monitor and influence what their kids see and do online?

          Should law enforcement be able to access messages sent to my kid? I'm going to have to say no to this one.

          • TZubiri19 hours ago
            It's not a matter of should government be allowed to protect kids. They already do, that's not the discussion.

            In the same way that parents can control what kids do with their devices, so can governments and they do, all the time. Through regulation they control what software companies like Google or Apple approve for kids, and they can control or subpoena data from kid apps.

            >Should law enforcement be able to access messages sent to my kid? I'm going to have to say no to this one.

            100% should, and 100% does, you are misinformed on what is and what should be. Thankfully you are not in charge of this decisions.

    • LorenPechtel10 hours ago
      The reason we denounce it is that it's *always* an attempt to get the camel's nose in. Just look at the article--politicians admitting their intent!

      And the reality is as always it's focusing on the wrong "threat". Like the vast majority of sexual abuse is by trusted people in the kid's life, not by anything on the web. The real threats on the web are social media and chat rooms, not the "naughty" stuff.

      Or look at the perennial attempts to allow governments to block "child sexual abuse images"--since it's always done with hashes there's no verification that that's all they're doing. Think China wouldn't block images of tank man in Tienanmen Square?

    • Spivaka day ago
      I think this analysis presumes that the initial problem is real and the concern for it is made in good faith. The senate isn't immune to concern trolling and "protecting the children" is probably the most famous and most used smokescreen for people with ulterior motives. Accepting the premise is not usually a good strategy.

      And we don't even have to speculate anymore what they are because the plan is out in the open. So when someone shows up with what is ostensibly a non-problem in the real world but the solution to which happens to be the legal tool they need for this other less popular worse thing they've loudly said they want I think it's normal and intellectually honest for that to be the analysis. "The EFF doesn't care about child safety" is exactly what they wanted you to say to dismiss any reasoned opposition.

      • TZubiri19 hours ago
        That's a great way to be excluded from a political conversation, pretend that the other side does not exist and that we are a strawman from a conspiracy.

        How about recognizing the inevitable conflict between two priorities: kid safety and online privacy? Simple thing really.

        Again, you don't need to do this, but you will be ignored and put in a kiddy table while the adults talk in the senate and in school boards.

        Most schools have deep inspecting firewalls btw. Go tell them that it's an invasion onto kid's privacy, and that you should be able to speak with them without their parents or guardians snooping. See how they look at ya

        • LorenPechtel10 hours ago
          It's not that we pretend the other side doesn't exist. Rather, we recognize that it's a false flag recruitment effort.

          And note that I haven't noticed anyone objecting to any client-side filtering approaches--I've even suggested one. We are objecting to mandated server-side verification because we know it's a camel's nose.

        • Spivak10 hours ago
          If your philosophy on how to best protect the children under your care is to install monitoring and filtering software on devices you own and require id verification to bypass (such as teacher's overrides) then that is your right.

          That being said if I a parent at such a school I would assist my child in every way possible to make sure that their own browsing is exempted or shielded from such systems because I do think it's a violation of their privacy and that's my right as a parent but I digress.

          If that same philosophy requires everyone to be subject to such a monitoring and filtering system by law then that's where I take issue. Because having teacher's credentials by virtue of being an adult isn't enough. I'm still being monitored and identified.

          Do you really not see the difference between an opt-in filtering system controlled by the responsible party for specific children and a global mandatory filtering system controlled by literally the worst human beings alive? That have an explicitly adversarial relationship to you and control the global definition of child appropriate to suit their agenda?

  • JanisErdmanis2 days ago
    It does sounds like that the author is not aware of existence of zero knowledge range proofs for identity based authetification (anonymous credentials). In essence they work as follows: a third party vouches a commitment for your birth year into a commitment with a signature. This then can be used for to be shown to a service provider along with a range proof to ensure that the age limit gets respected. That way service provider does not learn your year while can ensure that all members respect some required age limit.
    • Aloisius2 days ago
      > a third party vouches

      If the only porn requires this, then the third party has a record of every single person who wants to view porn.

      • JanisErdmanis2 days ago
        The third party vouches commitments with their year of birth for all individuals. The secret opening can be distributed to citizens with their identity card. Also multiple properties can be signed at the same time like location coordinates that can be used for other purposes and hence not making vouching exclusive to age verification.
    • rs1862 days ago
      How does that third party know my birth year?

      And the precision of one year is way too low.

      • tzs2 days ago
        I don't know about the specific systems he is thinking of but I think the general approach is to use a third party that already knows that.
  • aleccoa day ago
    What if all the porn, adult, crypto, gambling, etc. content was in a separate part of Internet? Like a red lights district. Or at least be easily blocked (but with laws requiring them to help blocklists or IP/domain).

    In meatspace there are rules of how close those can be from schools and churches (of any denomination).

  • tzs2 days ago
    For the issue of underage people purchasing products they should not be able to I wonder if this could be handled by requiring sellers to only accept payment by credit card, and to only complete the sale if the shipping address matches the credit card account address?

    A child could borrow an adult's card, but then the items would be shipped to that adult's address which could make it hard for the child to get them without that adult noticing, and the purchase should show up on the next credit card statement further increasing the chances the adult will notice if the child is surreptitiously using the adult's credit card.

    Maybe even require the listing on the credit card statement to have a prominent annotation stating that there were purchases of age restricted products that month.

    This wouldn't stop all such purchases, but it should make it harder and it should make it easier for parents to find out that it is happening.

    • In my country people above 13, but under 18 are allowed to have debit cards (Mastercard/Visa) and bank accounts themselves (with parent's permission and automatic power of attorney to this account) I've had an account, card and state-issued ID since I was 13, all look the same as for any adult, the only difference being the date of birth on that ID. My parents just agreed, and didn't ever check or accessed the account (nor they probably even knew how).
    • beefleta day ago
      I feel like minors should be allowed to buy some stuff online as long as there is age verification for alcohol or whatever. They can go to a store and buy stuff in-person, so why not
  • yusyusyusa day ago
    Back in the day, during the short-lived reign of Communications Decency Act's provisions for dealing with pornographic material and minors, there emerged a site called sexkey.com that would provide a sort of SSO experience for doing age verification. That is, one would verify their age with sexkey.com and then, at participating sites, one would do a lil SSO bounce to verify age.

    When the CDA's porn provisions were struck down, the sort of industry argument was that they'd use the PICS site ratings and the content could be blocked in proxy/client side. This made a lot of sense in the context of the V-chip mandates of the 90's. AFAIK browsers stopped supporting this a long time back.

  • LinuxBender16 hours ago
    I stand by my statement that the laws need only require servers and clients use the RTA header. [1] Not perfect but perfect is the enemy of good or so they say. No leakage, privacy compliant. Contact your reps.

    [1] - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43249230

  • giantg22 days ago
    "no method of age verification is both privacy-protective and entirely accurate."

    No method of age verification is entirely actuate. It seem a hardline stance that we can't think up a process that would allow for a reasonable level of accuracy with privacy. It could literally be drawing a usb token from a bucket full of them after a human at the DMV visually checks your license.

    • masfuerte2 days ago
      There was a serious proposal to do something like this in the UK [1] the last time the government tried to introduce age checks for online porn. Age checks are becoming mandatory this July but the idea of having a privacy-respecting option seems to have been dropped.

      [1]: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/porn-passes-...

    • genewitcha day ago
      That's cool. Do you think they'll mind if I surreptitiously put a couple of thumb drives of my own into the bucket?
  • 92834092322 days ago
    The people behind these "save the children" age verification bills are funded by verification companies looking for contracts. Russell Vought, Mr.Project 2025 himself, is also a massive proponent of using porn as an excuse for more surveillance.
  • diebeforei4852 days ago
    I have my California Drivers License in my Apple Wallet.

    I should be able to prove to iPhone apps that I am 18+ (only a binary yes/no with no metadata) by the apps making a local API call to iOS, which checks this information with the unexpired drivers license on device.

    • 3np2 days ago
      That is trusting both Apple and the client, and also only works for iPhone.

      We can do better with zero-knowledge-proof-based schemes, which also allow securely decoupling issuance/certification from online verification.

      E.g. https://linc.cnil.fr/en/demonstration-privacy-preserving-age...

      • whatshisface2 days ago
        It's a privacy issue as long as Jim's Blackmail and Certificates, Inc. knows who they've certified.
    • inetknght2 days ago
      What if you're born on February 29th?

      What if you're borth on March 1st and it's currently February 29, 18 years later?

      • SketchySeaBeast2 days ago
        I don't know that I care for the solution, but why would the API have a problem with either of those scenarios? What datetime library are you using that does, and why haven't you switched?
      • slyall2 days ago
        Age Laws worry about dates. They don't care about leap years, time of birth or timezones.
  • hayst4ck2 days ago
    Almost no discussion matters as long as Google Analytics/fonts is embedded in almost every website you visit. EFF is looking at individual grains of sand on a beach of surveillance.

    Pornhub publishes insights on their blog where they include an age/gender/country breakdown of their viewers. That data must come from somewhere, likely google analytics or something like it, which means that there is a thriving surveillance market whether there is age verification or not.

    The surveillance is already happening, there isn't any need to backdoor it because it's already there.

    People think google is a search company, but it's not. People think Facebook is a social media company, but it's not.

    They are privatized intelligence companies, intelligence as in the I in CIA. And rather than that intelligence being used to, said charitably, make America a safer place, that intelligence is being leveraged to make rich people richer and less regulated.

    Not enough of a spotlight is on privatized intelligence functions. It's no wonder it feels like corporations have more power than the government, they have access to mini privatized CIAs, with arguably much less oversight.

    • monksy2 days ago
      > Pornhub publishes insights on their blog where they include an age/gender/country breakdown of their viewers. That data must come from somewhere, likely google analytics or something like it, which means that there is a thriving surveillance market whether there is age verification or not.

      Data brokers. But that data isn't exactly accurate. Relatively over the large population yes. Accurate for identifying indivdual users: no.

    • Der_Einzigea day ago
      It pisses me off the see you accuse them of being spook adjacent when the real “private intelligence” companies are much more mundane and lucrative: they are known as expert networks:

      https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Expert_network

  • fortran772 days ago
    Parents can choose to restrict their kids internet access. That's the best way of handling this.
    • 2OEH8eoCRo02 days ago
      The Internet is so ubiquitous and intertwined in daily life that that's impossible and you know it.
      • natebc2 days ago
        And "porn" (or anything you might want your children not to see?) is also ubiquitous and so intertwined with the internet that it's impossible to block ... and you also know it.

        Responsibility really is the only fix here. I know we love technical solutions to problems but either porn is illegal for everyone or it isn't.

        • immibis20 hours ago
          "Parental responsibility" is to parenting what "pilot error" was to plane crashes: a thought-terminating cliche that refuses to dig any deeper.

          When they stopped blaming crashes on "pilot error" they were able to properly investigate the causes of crashes and prevent more crashes.

          "Pilot error" is a suitable explanation if you are a mechanic investigating the crash. You determined that the plane moved the wrong way because the ailerons moved the wrong way because the pilot told them to move that way. It's not a suitable explanation for a final report because you need to find out why the pilot told them to move that way.

          Codeless Code 224

      • michaelmior2 days ago
        I don't think the parent comment was suggesting disallowing access to the Internet entirely, but restricting the content that is accessible. Accessing pornographic material is obviously not a necessity for kids. That said, kids of course do often find a way around any blocks or filters put in place.
        • Lanolderen2 days ago
          Never underestimate being horny, curious and having copious amounts of free time. Having to go through hoops does make it clear you shouldn't be looking at it though.
      • Braxton19802 days ago
        For kids?
  • CaffeineLD502 days ago
    Preventing kids from being exploited online is a damn good thing, whether its porn companies, Facebook, or CSAM PDFs doing the exploiting.

    Maybe we can even protect adults from being exploited online one of these days too (obviously not in the current US administration, but some day).

    • LorenPechtel10 hours ago
      The problem is that you're blaming the wrong targets. The porn companies aren't interested in kids, they don't have much money or ways to spend it on their content.
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  • plasma_beam2 days ago
    Am I missing something here? Entirely possible and likely. When I go to pornhub I have to click a button that days I’m 18. Some other sites I’ve seen actually make me enter a birthdate. Slightly more annoying but I always make one up. Is this what people are upset about? I get actual age verification with an account required or checking my ID is more invasive..but I guess I’ve not experienced this as an actual problem yet.
    • mandevil2 days ago
      This is about a Texas Law that went before the Supreme Court recently.

      Texas' law, H.B. 1181, requires people visiting porn websites to prove their age by either uploading government-issued identification or a "commercially reasonable method" such as bank information. More than a dozen other states have passed similar bills, though they are all on hold pending what the Supreme Court decides.

      • 2OEH8eoCRo02 days ago
        There's just too much money to be made selling porn to children.
        • LorenPechtel10 hours ago
          Children don't exactly have a lot of money, especially in a form they can spend online. Porn companies want customers who can actually afford to buy their products!
        • 92834092322 days ago
          No, there isn't. Almost all porn that is accessible to children is on freely available social media like instagram and twitter. Not on Pornhub.
          • dragonwriter10 hours ago
            Twitter and Instagram, then, are not businesses that make money selling content to viewers in an indirect manner where the viewer provides eyeballs to an advertiser who then provides money to the platform, right?
          • twiclo2 days ago
            Are you saying kids don't go to pornhub?
    • evil-olive2 days ago
      your confusion is understandable, because "age verification" can mean anything from "check the box that says you're 18" to "upload a picture of the front and back of your driver's license".

      > When I go to pornhub I have to click a button that days I’m 18.

      if you were in Texas, it'd be not reachable at all [0]. this is due to a bill [1] that would have required Pornhub to use the more intrusive age-verification options. it also allows for significant fines for non-compliance. if a 16 year old kid used their 19 year old brother's ID to get through the verification, Pornhub could potentially be liable for up to $250k. and the broadest reading of that bill would mean that quarter-million fine applies every time a minor bypassed the age-verification check.

      0: https://www.texastribune.org/2024/03/14/texas-pornhub-5th-ci...

      1: https://capitol.texas.gov/tlodocs/88R/billtext/html/HB01181F...

      • ndriscoll2 days ago
        That fine applies if they don't have a system at all, not for scenarios like you posted.
        • evil-olivea day ago
          > That fine applies if they don't have a system at all

          no, that's not accurate. quoting from the bill:

          > A civil penalty imposed under this section for a violation of Section 129B.002 or 129B.003 may be in an amount equal to not more than the total, if applicable, of:

          > (1) $10,000 per day that the entity operates an Internet website in violation of the age verification requirements of this chapter;

          > (2) $10,000 per instance when the entity retains identifying information in violation of Section 129B.002(b); and

          > (3) if, because of the entity's violation of the age verification requirements of this chapter, one or more minors accesses sexual material harmful to minors, an additional amount of not more than $250,000.

          if they don't have a system for age verification, the possible fine is $10k per day. run a website for a year, and then the Texas AG gets around to filing a suit against you? that's a possible 3.65 million fine.

          the possible $250k is on top of that, if minors access porn on such a website.

          crucially, the law says the age-verification system used must be "reasonable" which gives prosecutors a significant amount of leeway. does your porn site use Honest Achmed's Age Verification Service? if that is easy to bypass, there's nothing stopping them from arguing in court that you may have implemented age-verification, but you didn't comply with the law because you didn't use a reasonable verification service.

        • genewitcha day ago
          And who decides if the solution is, you know, appropriate and all that's required and not just half-assing it? Is it something where they would have to get fined $250,000 and then go fight it in court?
    • ryandvm2 days ago
      Certain US states are requiring the porn sites actually do rigorous age verification via scanned documents. I believe PornHub just opted to stay out of those states entirely hoping that their "reverse boycott" would cause enough of a backlash to get the laws changed. I'm not sure it's working.

      That said, as a parent to teenagers, I don't know that I believe that age verification is such a terrible idea. The reality is that there's a lot of fucked up porn out there and blocking it effectively across all networks and every device is non-trivial. I understand this is a minority viewpoint on HN.

      Of course I have absolutely no interest in uploading scans of my drivers license to porn sites so I don't know what the right answer is. I'm sure there's some cryptographic scheme whereby a 3rd party could verify my identity without knowing for what purpose and then the porn sites could validate that verification without disclosing who or what I'm doing. I dunno.

      • mandevil2 days ago
        "Hoping that technology can magically solve this without destroying privacy" seems to be where the Supreme Court is heading, at least that was what observers thought after watching the Court's hearing on the Texas bill a few weeks ago.

        Which is one reason that the EFF is trying to lay down their argument that the technology won't work.

      • LorenPechtel10 hours ago
        It's much better to "block" it by educating your kids rather than pretending it doesn't exist.
      • twiclo2 days ago
        "Of course I have absolutely no interest in uploading scans of my drivers license to porn sites"

        Would you be okay uploading your ID to online gambling sites?

      • jay-barronville2 days ago
        > That said, as a parent to teenagers, I don't know that I believe that age verification is such a terrible idea. The reality is that there's a lot of fucked up porn out there and blocking it effectively across all networks and every device is non-trivial. I understand this is a minority viewpoint on HN.

        I agree with you. I’m very pro-privacy/anti-surveillance and pro-freedom, so I’m entirely against the invasive ID-based systems, but the problem you highlight is pretty real and has to be addressed somehow, and I’m just not sure what the solution is.

        As a parent of very young children, I’d hope that we’ve already figured this out by the time my children are teenagers.

        Also, I doubt your viewpoint is actually a minority viewpoint here—it’s more likely those with your viewpoint just won’t post it here.

        • Analemma_2 days ago
          > I agree with you. I’m very pro-privacy/anti-surveillance and pro-freedom, so I’m entirely against the invasive ID-based systems, but the problem you highlight is pretty real and has to be addressed somehow, and I’m just not sure what the solution is.

          The solution is client-side filtering/blocking software on the machines you own. And if your response is "but that's hard", that should increase your confidence that server-side filtering and verification are unacceptable. If even tech-savvy people can't get verification working on a local device-- which has the full, correct context who is using it and what should be blocked-- then certainly it's not going to get any better by mandating a solution at scale on the public Internet, where there is much less context about the individual user, credentials can be mocked, proxies can be used, and so on.

    • genewitcha day ago
      Find a VPN with an exit in Texas, Louisiana, or Utah, to name three off the top of my head.

      Louisiana, AFAIK Does not require age verification, but all of our traffic goes to Dallas, so we get lumped in with Texas.

    • RDaneel0livaw2 days ago
      I live in a state where they have banned all porn sites entirely. If I try to go to pornhub there's a statement from the company saying I can't access it at all. Period. It's beyond absurd into the realm of comedy levels of incompetence from the gov.
    • weaksauce2 days ago
      to buy vape products online in california you have to submit your id to a third party id verification service. that's incredibly intrusive and could be where these laws go.
  • valicord2 days ago
    Haven't checked the others, but at least for the skin cream bill, the text explicitly lists "a date of birth entry or checkbox verifying age system" as sufficient, so the outrage about privacy seems overblown.

    Of course this raises questions as to what is the point of requiring verification that doesn't actually verify anything, but that's an entirely separate problem.

    • evil-olive2 days ago
      > Haven't checked the others, but at least for the skin cream bill

      if you did check the other two, you'd notice that they're much more restrictive.

      from the NY bill, apologies for the all-caps but it's in the original [0]:

      > "IDENTITY VERIFICATION" SHALL MEAN THE USE OF AN ON-DEMAND SELF-PHOTOGRAPH TO VERIFY THE OWNERSHIP OF A PERSON'S GOVERNMENT-ISSUED IDENTIFICATION;

      > "LICENSE VERIFICATION" SHALL MEAN THE USE OF TECHNOLOGY TO VERIFY A PERSON'S GOVERNMENT-ISSUED IDENTIFICATION;

      and the one in WA [1]:

      > For the purposes of this section, proof of legal age includes any of the following officially issued identification that shows the purchaser's age and bears the purchaser's signature and photograph:

      0: https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/A3323

      1 (PDF): https://lawfilesext.leg.wa.gov/biennium/2025-26/Pdf/Bills/Se...

      • valicord2 days ago
        I did check the others later, the WA bill only requires IRL verification, same as purchasing alcohol, so it also doesn't really fit the theme of the article either.

        2/3 examples being heavily exaggerated is a pretty bad look for the author (even though I agree with the article sentiment in general).

    • valicord2 days ago
      Likewise the dietary pills bill only requires the ID to be verified either at a retail point of sale or when the online purchase is delivered, so there doesn't seem to be any invasive data collection required.

      To be clear: I'm strongly against any laws that require uploading government ID to sketchy websites, but at least 2 out of the 3 examples listed are not this.

    • pakitan2 days ago
      One could argue it's the first step of the slippery slope process. First you introduce a checkbox as a "non-intrusive way" to for age verification, knowing full well it's useless. Next step is you say "Ok, we clearly agree there is a need for age verification, we all voted for the checkbox but kids are lying so we must put into place a system that cannot be gamed. Think of the children!"
      • drdaeman2 days ago
        If we don't trust the legislative and see them as malevolent entities with their own agendas unaligned with those of their constituents, then, yes, a checkbox opens a path for further abuse.

        If we trust the legislative to have a modicum of common sense and don't try to invent a technical solution to a non-technical problem, then a warning "what you're going to see is not for the younger audiences" might be a reasonable compromise.

        And it's a shame we live in a world where the former doesn't sound completely nuts.

    • Teever2 days ago
      What's the point of anytl of this though?

      Like what public interest is served by having a date of birth entry or a checkbox for 'verifying' age?

      To me it serves no public interest as it's functionally useless and it will only serve as a thin end of a wedge to normalize more egregious requirements.

      • valicord2 days ago
        Oh, I agree, it seems completely useless as written. I'm just saying that it's no more of a privacy violation than Steam asking for your birth date (which somehow happens to be January 1st, 1900 for a shocking percentage of the population) to watch a video game trailer. I assume the point is virtue signaling.
  • croesa day ago
    Everything of this kind of protection can be used for surveillance
  • whoitwas2 days ago
    They are. There's no need for them. Parents should parent.
  • buyucua day ago
    most of the ''protect the kids!'' rhetoric originates from the government who want to use it as a smoke screen to push authoritarian surveillance laws.
    • LorenPechtel10 hours ago
      "Most"??

      Where's the stuff that isn't a smoke screen?

      • buyucu5 hours ago
        I tried really hard to find an example. I could not find one.
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      • ajross2 days ago
        EFF's legal side is... not as insane, I guess. And there are some sound minds surely there still.

        But I repeat: the data privacy dystopia is upon us, and what is EFF pushing for clicks and eyeballs? "Big Tech Bad".

        "Big Tech Bad" is precisely the kind of poorly-grounded outrage farm used to bring DOGE to power in the first place. Voters trying to bring their perceived enemies to heel are the actual threat! And EFF is part of the problem and not the solution.

        In the coming years we will remember fondly when our personal data lived in secure and well-managed centers run by Meta and Google and Amazon and not on some DOGE staffers' Macbook. Write it down.

  • AtNightWeCode2 days ago
    Preteen girls using peeling skin cream is a thing where I live. It causes skin damage. Tiktok bs.
    • weaksauce2 days ago
      ok but the solution should be "parent better" vs. "legislate our privacy away"
    • quickthrowman2 days ago
      How is a preteen girl ordering products from a website?
  • isaacremuant2 days ago
    Meh. Hackernews users will be mostly in favour of any authotarian measure if advertised for it enough because they're all for some "imposed greater good" and slightly disagree on "implementation".

    COVID policies managing to get mainstream support already proved that.

    Don't cry when they turn it up to 11. This is what they tell you to ask for and you do.

    The rest of us will continue fighting for "our freedumbs" no matter what governments do.

    • outer_weba day ago
      Nonspecific covid policies getting support from "the mainstream" is proof that HN will support authoritarianism?

      Huh.

      • isaacremuanta day ago
        Yes. That was the most clear cut case of authoritarianism I've ever seen in the post Berlin wall era.

        It's not hard to grasp if you read a constitution and see how right to assemble, right to work, right to bodily autonomy, right to speak, all got attacked in different degrees in different countries across the world with apparent widespread support. Of course, censorship of any alternative played a part and non compliance by people who pretended to comply happened all the time but by and large the authoritarian tune was sung.

        Now, you can call me one of the typical labels that were in vogue back then but, it doesn't really change facts.

        • LorenPechtel10 hours ago
          If we had done as well as the places that were careful there would be about 1 million more Americans now than there actually are. But most of them were costs to society, not producers, and thus killing them was a win for the Republicans.

          (Although I don't think we had a chance of doing as well because it got here earlier.)

        • outer_web20 hours ago
          Uh what?

          Brief shelter in place orders followed by limitations on* occupancy of commercial spaces is proof that HN will embrace deanonymizing the internet?

          You are also gonna have to help me out what I am supposed to call you.

  • rickandmortyy2 days ago
    lmao it's hilarious when free folk talk about surveillance like cars on road aren't collecting data
  • paulvnickerson2 days ago
    The solution to this is trusted third party age verification services, such as SSL signing authorities, which are baked into browsers.
    • drdaeman2 days ago
      I don't think so. This is not a technical problem - modern computers simply have no means to know who's sitting in front of them. And even if someone tries to invent some contraption to do so (idk, IR cameras, voice verification, DNA sequencers), I must remind that whoever has physical access can still feed computer any signals. For simpler methods (like a basic face recognition with a webcam to match the ID) spoofing is cheaper than the camera, and more sophisticated methods are extremely costly and full of undesirable side effects.
  • TZubiri2 days ago
    This is one of those issues that is almost purely political.

    Either you believe the state is out to get you, or you believe that kids shouldn't access porn.

    Free software maxis will tell you that age laws are surveillance and that child pornography is an excuse to have subpoena mechanisms.

    • qingcharles2 days ago
      But this law doesn't stop kids from accessing porn. It just moves the problem?
  • mannyv2 days ago
    When the Internet was built there was an expectation of anonymity. But anonymity and privacy are not quite the same.

    And in fact, the Internet is not anonymous or private, as there are multiple ways to track and surveil members of the general public.

    IMO the next step in the Internet's evolution needs to be the authenticated internet. An Authenticated Internet pretty much removes all the security issues, since every connection is authenticated. And authentication doesn't necessarily mean you're not anonymous.

    Right now the Internet has become the worst of both worlds - not private, not anonymous, and all the problems associated with that (insecure, spoonable, etc).

    That's what the EFF has wrong: the Internet is already a backdoor to surveillance. They're trying to stick their finger in the dyke. But what needs to happen is to rebuild the whole thing.

    • isaacremuant2 days ago
      No. You want it because you want "total security" to feel safe but your authoritarian world doesn't make me and others feel safe. Thankfully, the government wants the power so they'll use it against dissidents when it matters hence you'll get a semblance of your way.

      You can't block technology though. Government or not. People find a way.